Learn How to Fight Routine!

12.03.2010 | By: A. B.

Don’t give in to sexual indifference. Instead, learn how to fight routine. Don’t allow a long-term relationship to be an excuse for boring intercourse. Spicing it up is firmly in your hands!

Why should you always do it in your bed if you can have hot intercourse standing up? (jlp)

Do it standing up

For a start, fight routine with different sexual positions. For example, why should you always wait for the passion to take you to bed if you can have perfectly effective intercourse standing up as well? Let us inspire you with the movies The English Patient and Sea of Love, where Ralph Fiennes, Kirsten Scott Thomas, Al Pacino and Ellen Barkin do it standing. Take the initiative without any prior notice, so that your partners will be surprised. Cling tightly to their bodies, give them a hot French kiss, rub your breasts against them and make a direct suggestion. Don’t worry, they’ll be up for it because they’re as tired of your bed as you are. A man can do the same, of course. He can walk up behind his partner’s back, kiss her on the neck passionately, grab her breasts and get her against a wall and start penetrating.

If there’s no time for foreplay, get ready for intercourse on your own.

Get ready on your own

If you don’t have time for long foreplay and if your family duties are weighing you down, get ready for intercourse on your own. When the man is cleaning the kitchen, for example, the woman should go to the bedroom and get herself hot with a vibrator and some beads. If the woman has to fix the refrigerator, for example, the man can start masturbating. When they get together, the passion will be at its peak, which means that no foreplay will be required. You can also fight routine by masturbating together and watching each other, which means that you’ll save time and get to the main course faster. Anyway, each person knows his/her body best, which means that he/she can get aroused in the fastest possible way.

The male body is also full of erogenous zones. It’s worth to find them. (jlp)

The male body has many erogenous zones as well

Dear ladies, if you think a man is aroused only by stimulating his penis, you’re dead wrong. The male body is one big erogenous zone. You just have to know how to find the right key and the party can begin. On your quest to explore his body you should fight routine. We suggest you take all of your partner’s clothes off and start fondling and caressing his whole body. Don’t forget a single inch and pay attention where he reacts to sexual stimuli. He’ll definitely respond to the stimulation of the nipples, neck, ears, back and probably the anus. If you’re very patient and thorough, you may discover areas that even he didn’t know about! In this way, you’ll also get very close to your man, which means that your intercourse will also be hotter and more exciting.

Short text messages are ideal for arousal before intercourse.

Build up erotic atmosphere before intercourse

If you get caught up in the so-called erotic moment before intercourse and get yourself in the right mood, the intercourse itself will undoubtedly be better. This means that you have to set the right mood and light some candles instead of putting on the lights. Romantic and sexy music is a good idea. It can also be played during intercourse itself. Before you start with sex, you can get close by dancing to the sound of the beat and sensuously swinging your hips. You can also fight routine by watching an erotic movie (it doesn't have to be porn) or reading an erotic book aloud together, which will bring out the lust within you. You can turn one another on even from a distance - on the phone before you meet. Send each other naughty text messages, get charged with erotic energy and have unforgettable intercourse. Rachel Carlton Abrams, the author of the book The Multi-Orgasmic Woman, says that the greater the sexual energy before intercourse, the better the intercourse itself. The longer you stimulate one another over the distance, the stronger orgasm at actual physical contact!

Don’t be embarrassed to read sexual advice of other people and test them in practice. Be determined to fight routine and always ready to experiment.

Search for ideas for better intercourse in different ways

Sexual advice on how to fight routine can be found everywhere nowadays – in erotic books in every library, on parents’ and older brothers’ shelves, in magazines and of course on the internet, where there are thousands of tips. Just look at our site! Don’t be embarrassed to look for information and don’t think yourself boring because you need other people’s help. If we put our heads together, you get more ideas and different people have gone through different thing. Advice isn’t just meant to be read, it is meant to be tried out and tested for its usefulness.