Learn to Have Painless Anal Intercourse

9.10.2010 | By: K. Z.

Are you dreaming about indulging in anal intercourse without pain? Read on and find out how you can really enjoy it!

 

It takes a bit of extra time to learn how to have painless anal intercourse, but it’s definitely worth it! (Photoxpress)

It takes a bit of extra time to learn how to have painless anal intercourse, but it’s definitely worth it! (Photoxpress)

When it comes to enjoying in sexuality, anal intercourse is something many people wouldn’t even consider as they think it’s strange and uncomfortable. But they just might be missing out on something. Sure, the anus is a very sensitive area of the human body, but for that very reason it can become the source of phenomenal pleasure. With this in mind, we think that it’s time to cast all inhibitions aside and begin to explore the joys of anal intercourse. Since the anus wasn’t made for penetration, you should carefully explore every inch of it in order to find out what kinds of anal stimuli you find pleasurable. The best way to do that is by anal masturbation. Here is some advice on how to stimulate the rectal opening’s sensitive nerve endings.

Take your time

Before getting ready to try and have painless anal intercourse, it’s important to take the time to get acquainted with anal masturbation. Before you begin, take the proper precautions so that you’re not disturbed. It definitely wouldn’t be fun if someone walked in on you while you’re exploring your anal cavity. It takes some time and proper stimulation for the anus to relax; so it’s crucial to be able to explore the joys of anal masturbation and to prepare yourself to have painless anal intercourse without any disturbances. Before you start, you could also borrow a book about the human anatomy or surf the internet to find as much information about the human rectal region as possible. The extra information will make it easier for you to start learning how to have painless anal intercourse the right way.

Mandatory equipment for painless anal intercourse

Any form of anal stimulation calls for the use of an appropriate lubricant since the anus doesn’t excrete any self-lubricating secretions. To have painless anal intercourse, you will need quite a lot of lubricant in order to prevent the inner walls of the anus to be subjected to excessive friction which could lead to very unpleasant injuries. And it won’t be enough to apply the lubricant just at the beginning. Get plenty of the stuff and keep it coming. There can never be too much lubricant when it comes to anal intercourse. Many people have prejudices about touching their anus. And given its original function that’s understandable. If you have doubts as well, we advise you to equip yourself with a pair of latex gloves or appropriate rubber gloves made from other materials to keep the contact as hygienic as possible. A pair of appropriate rubber gloves can also prevent you from injuring the interior of your anus by scratching yourself with your fingernails or from hurting yourself otherwise. If you won’t be using rubber gloves, then do trim your fingernails and file their edges.

Learn about your anus before you start with anal intercourse. (Photoxpress)

Learn about your anus before you start with anal intercourse. (Photoxpress)

Don’t rush penetration

Haste makes waste when learning how to have painless anal intercourse, so don’t rush it. Get the lube ready and focus on the region around the anus. Try touching it all around in circles and find out what you like best. It would be best to stimulate the anus with your fingers at first, as this will allow you to find out where your sensitive spots are. Don’t forget to breathe deeply and consciously. If certain touches don’t feel good, then try to touch yourself somewhere else. Keep stimulating yourself as long as it takes for you to become comfortable with your body. Do this as often as you like. There is no rule about having to penetrate the anus if you don’t want to – remember that whatever you do needs to feel comfortable. When you're finally ready to penetrate the anus, don’t forget to do it slowly and gently. The anus takes quite some time to relax, so don’t rush things by jamming the tip of your finger inside it with force. Start with just placing one of your fingers against the sphincter and pressing it like you’re ringing a doorbell. If you’re not able to apply pressure without resistance, don’t force anything. When the sphincter is sufficiently relaxed, you’ll be able to let your finger slip inside the anus with ease.

Experiment by touching yourself and moving your fingers in different ways

To be able to have painless anal intercourse, you should start learning how to do it right by penetrating your anus just with one finger at first. Keep doing so until you really feel comfortable enough to add another finger and later maybe even a sex toy as well. After you get used to the feeling of penetrating your anus, go on to explore the sensations that can be brought about by touching yourself in different ways. Men should experience pleasant sensations when touching the front wall of their anal cavity. By doing so, you stimulate the prostate gland. The sensation can be compared to the one that women experience when touching the inner part of the clitoris.

Proper anal hygiene is the key

Any kind of pleasurable anal sexual activity calls for proper anal hygiene. The anus is a nesting place of many kinds of bacteria which cause no harm while in the anus, but could cause nasty infections if they find their way into the vagina. You should be careful to never put anything that had been inserted into the anus into any other cavity of the human body! If you wear latex gloves or gloves made of any other kind of rubber, be careful to remove them so that you avoid touching them with bare skin. Wash the container of the lubricant which you applied during anal masturbation or during anal intercourse thoroughly under hot water. Do the same with any erotic toys you might have used as well. If you used a silicon dildo, you can sterilize it in a pot of boiling water afterwards. Last but not least, never forget to wash your hands!

Anal intercourse and anal masturbation are often thought of as being dirty and painful. But they don’t have to be if you do them the right way.  You will be able to have painless anal intercourse or enjoy a painless session of anal masturbation quite easily and without any complications. Moreover, anal intercourse and anal masturbation can be the sources of most wonderful sexual sensations and great sexual pleasure. So if you want to really enjoy intercourse, don’t overlook or shun your anus. You can bring it into your sexual life quite easily and if you decide to do so, we can confidently say that you will want to have painless anal intercourse over and over again.

Find more advice on anal intercourse in the Encyclopedia of Sexuality.



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