Make Her Love Your Fingers

5.09.2012 | By: Alex F.

Don’t miss the article on how to make her love your fingers. It’s definitely not as simple as it might seem at first glance!

The three finger combination will certainly put a smile on her face. (PhotoXpress)

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When gratifying someone with your fingers you should always start with wide movements, then go to a smaller area and from slower to faster pace. The stimulation should be intensified.

Make her love your fingers with a three-finger combo

The three finger approach is best if you’re behind her or on her. Start by forming a curve across her labia minora and majora with three fingers. The index and ring fingers should remain on the outer edge of the labia majora, while you place the middle finger on the top of the whole canal and the top of the clitoris. Be careful not to shock the clitoris. Don’t tackle it directly. Intensify the sensation in the vicinity instead. It’s interesting that your hand protects the area from the inflow of air, so that the woman feels the warmth of your hand and will also remain moist longer. And moistness is a good thing if you're trying to make her love your finger skills.

Then gently insert your middle finger into the vagina. Finally, take a short break with your index and middle fingers on the canal of the clitoris and move forwards and backwards, while at the same time push down gently.

Make her love your fingers by stimulating multiple areas

This position should be chosen by men who love their lady’s bottom. Admiring the skin on the bottom can be very addictive for a man, just like the specific smell of a woman. This position also enables good access to breasts. Men can efficiently use their thumb to perform circular motions in the vagina. Because the thumb is much stronger than the other fingers, it’s a good choice for long-term stimulation. This position is also appropriate for working on the G-spot. Try pushing or stroking the front wall of her vagina with your index and middle fingers bent. This position is also ideal as an introduction into anal games. The G-spot and breasts combo will make her love you even more.

Most men report that index and middle fingers which are bent together work best for this. The canal of the clitoris is lying lengthwise between the fingers. Don’t forget to use your free hand to expose her back!

Make her love the letter Y

Imagine that she’s sitting on the floor, while you’re her support behind her back. You can also wrap your legs around one another. The advantage of this position is that the woman remains in physical contact with you and can melt into your body. This position enables you to ‘spin’ her clitoris softly, which can cause immense pleasure. Always keep two things in mind: Gentle circular movements and gentle pressure! Y-knot: spread the labia with two fingers of one hand, then place your other hand on them and place your middle finger or two fingers together on the clitoris. Massage it with circular or transverse movements. This will make her love your hands even more, especially if you try bending one or two fingers and insert them into the vagina while at it.

Make her love the magnificent 30 seconds

The female vagina will start getting moist 30 seconds after the start of stimulation, no matter if it’s mental or physical. Some women have a lot of natural lubricant. This depends on each individual and also on how dehydrated she is, if she’s on any medication and where in her cycle she is. This also applies to women in menopause. That’s why we repeat that you shouldn’t focus on her action spots (breasts and genitalia) right away. Don’t forget that the skin is the biggest sexual organ, so use it well. Take your time on all the parts of her body and instead of dreading the 30 seconds of your cluelessness, make her love every second of it.

Make her love to relax and pay attention to breathing

Don’t poke her between the legs and say to yourself: “Great, she’s ready”. She’ll think you’ve mistaken her for a coffee machine. That’s why it’s better to focus your attention on her breathing. The more a woman is relaxed, the deeper and more relaxed her breathing will be. A change in her breathing is a certain sign that her reservations are disappearing and you helping her overcome her reservations will just make her love you even more.