Masturbate to Your Heart’s Content!

15.12.2010 | By: A. B.

There is no reason why people in relationships should not masturbate. If you are in the mood, play with yourself.

Don’t be embarrassed telling your partner how you masturbated and what you thought about. (Photoxpress)

Masturbation without a guilty conscience

People shouldn't feel any guilt and fear about the fact that they masturbate when in a serious relationship. Masturbating relaxes a person because of the orgasm and s/he can go on with the things planned for the day. Especially if the partner’s not there. If the partner is away on business or if you don’t live together, intercourse isn’t something you can do every day. There is nothing wrong with this kind of self-gratification, especially if you are aided by thinking of your partner or some hot photos you took together. Masturbation isn’t cheating and it is a hundred times better than that. Why should you feel guilty playing with yourself and satisfying your current need for an orgasm? We see no reason for it, so our advice to you is to do it when you feel like it. Don’t believe that only teenagers and desperate people who can’t get a partner do it. This is wrong and you should forget it quickly. Everyone masturbates, some more, others less. That is how it has always been and that is how it will remain.

You can also turn your partner on by masturbating

Talking about what you did solo and what you thought about when you were doing it will undoubtedly arouse your partner. That is why you shouldn’t hide it and don’t lie if he asks you if you played with yourself when he was gone. Your partner will have no reason to be angry or jealous because you were faithful and just found some time to relax. Masturbation is good for both men and women and should know no age limitations. Of course, you shouldn’t go overboard, so that the whole thing becomes more appealing than the intercourse. Masturbation can also be performed over the telephone or the internet. You can basically let go and use it as a part of your sexuality, especially when you are not together and the nights are very cold.

Combine intercourse and masturbation

Mutual masturbation is very useful as a part of foreplay. The partners can play, stroke and turn each other on before one another. The woman can rub her vagina for her man, while the man can masturbate wildly for her. Watching this will undoubtedly elevate your blood pressure and the effect will be double. The first dose of excitement will be because of the solo stimulation of your genitals, and the second because of the fact that you will be able to see your partner do it. You can masturbate until you reach an orgasm. You can do it simultaneously, but it is even better if you watch first and then join in. It is known that men love watching their partners get themselves to an orgasm, especially if she uses some accessories and she is really convincing and passionate. The same goes for women. Mutual masturbation actually helps couples to completely relax during intercourse and get used to one another. They finally forget the shame and all the other things that might have held them back from relaxing completely. This may be even more true for women, who are usually a bit more shy. A woman who is capable to get to an orgasm on her own in front of her partner is undoubtedly on the right track towards excellent sexuality.