Moan, shout, let your self loose during sex!

Some people still turn the lights off before intercourse. Some women are still afraid to stimulate their clitoris during intercourse and moan loudly. Some men are still embarrassed to show that they are really enjoying themselves. Be daring!

Keep the lights on

This is not about romantic lighting, where there is only a little bit of light. Many couples turn the lights off completely before intercourse because they are embarrassed. They do not want their partner to evaluate them in the light. They also have the feeling that they are not attractive enough with their physical attributes. This is of course a grave mistake, especially with couples who know each other well and know what the other person looks like. This also applies to couples who are going at it for the first time, which means that there is plenty of passion. Who is going to mind a little physical “mistake” when there is so much passion and the desire for intercourse is that great? Believe me, no one. Even more than that, the clear sight of the partner’s naked body serves as extra stimulation and leaves the other partner in expectation of things to come. When the lights are turned off, this is not possible and it actually kills the passion that was running high before, especially if you cannot se your partner taking his/her clothes off. These moments are the most exciting parts of foreplay. If the partner comes under the covers in the dark and already naked (you are also naked and invisible to him), you will both be deprived of many pleasures that the lights offer before the intercourse. The same goes for the dark during the act itself. The light is much more interesting here as well and both partners can get their kicks. The man can gloat over her breasts and the penetration of the penis into the vagina, while the woman can observe his face and his enjoyment during the penetration. In short, the light is great before and during shagging, while the dark should only be an exception to the rule.

Stimulate your clitoris

As you know, women are in most cases deprived of having their clitoris stimulated during penetration. The penis is just not able to reach it. And the clitoris is of key importance when it comes to reaching an orgasm. That is why it is recommendable that the woman helps herself as well during intercourse. She should stimulate her clitoris with her hand, get more pleasure out of it and reach an orgasm more easily. Dear guys, do not look at her strangely if she does this. Do not accuse her of anything and do not say that you find it unnecessary for her to do this because your penis should suffice. Do not make her feel any guilt because this will inhibit her orgasm, which means that you can go through some problems. Also, do not force her into letting you stimulate her clitoris instead of her during intercourse. If she wants to do it herself, let her. There is nothing wrong with that, so do not concern yourselves with it. But another problem may arise here. The woman might be embarrassed that she has to help herself during intercourse. She may feel that the man will be upset or she might feel uncomfortable in front of him. Dear ladies, just relax and enjoy yourselves without any remorse. Rub yourself as much as you want and feel some additional pleasure. It is your vagina, as is the clitoris and the man will naturally be pleased if you come as well and if everything does not take too long.

Moan, breathe, chat and scream to your heart’s content

Loud moaning is a good sign of people enjoying themselves during intercourse. It should not be fake, like in the porno movies, but real and basic, coming from the mouth of a person who feels real pleasure. That is why we do not understand why people are ashamed of this, that they feel they have to hold back and that their partner will look at them strangely. Do not worry, your partners will be really turned on by the moaning because they have the feeling they are doing it right, that they are doing things that make their partners go into ecstasy. Men like it when women moan, breathe and scream loudly during intercourse because the women show them they are enjoying themselves. So, dear ladies, do not hold back, let go and let everything come out of your mouths. That is if there are no other people in the vicinity and if you are alone and in a safe place. If you want to scream, then scream. If you want to say something filthy, go ahead. Nothing is prohibited, everything is welcome. The same goes for men. A woman likes to hear her partner moan, so that he shows her he likes what she is doing. Just imagine oral intercourse where a man is completely silent. It would be weird and the woman would wonder what she is doing wrong. It is true that women are often the loud ones, but men can let go in this area as well. They can even scream if they wish. In every possible way. In other words, let out whatever you feel during intercourse. In this way, the intercourse will be even better and more relaxed.