Play with Me in Bed!

If your sex life is getting stuck in a rut, make it more thrilling with some wild and gentle, playful eroticism.

Erotic games don’t take you back to your childhood, but they awake forgotten behavioral patterns that you express in a different, erotic way. (PhotoXpress)

A tendency to play is natural and spontaneous from early childhood onwards. Even in the newest games, psychiatrists can find suppressed deviant tendencies: the hiding game (voyeurism?), tying Indians to a pole (domination/submission?), tying the mother and father (primary eroticism?). A child caresses a doll as well as punishes it (sadism?).

When do you become sexually playful again?

People spontaneously stop playing games in adolescence. They replace them with sport and intellectual games that are no longer very spontaneous, but have a fixed framework, limits and rules.

However, people start playing games again when they’re sexually mature. They’re almost always based on a mild form of deviation. These games don’t always lead to sexual intercourse. They often only represent a renewed game from childhood with a touch of eroticism.

Hide-and-seek is in fact an erotic game

 
When in the countryside, couples and their friends can enjoy the game of hide-and-seek. A person whose eyes are covered, of course, doesn’t miss the opportunity to feel in detail the body of the person that he/she has to meet (the game is associated with changing partners). One evening a member of the company can suggest a completely innocent game of “homosexuals”: women dance with one another and change partners, while men, who represent the jury members, have to choose the best “lesbian couple”.

Strip poker can be a very interesting erotic game. Clothes are necessary to heighten tension. (PhotoXpress)

During a game of bridge, you can set a rule that a person who doesn’t play has to seduce the housewife. The game doesn’t necessary lead to an exchange of partners.

Who still thinks of strip poker?

 

One of the classic games with an erotic connotation is strip poker, which can be played by two or more players. This is a game of voyeurism and exhibitionism. Transvestism can be used in the game where a wife dressed as a man undresses her husband dressed as a woman.

Tying hands is a classic game, but it works every time. (PhotoXpress)

Tying hands as a completely normal fantasy

One of the variants of this game is tying your partner’s hands and legs in various positions (this is a very common game called bondage). The fact that one of the partners is left to the mercy of the other one arouses both of them. This game isn’t always followed by sexual act, but if it occurs, it’s often the game of rape.

Seduce each other in company - discreetly. This will arouse you! (PhotoXpress)

Do games have a common origin?

An inspiration  for a large number of games has origins in sadomasochism, and tying and other positions that denote submission – kneeling, crawling on all fours, verbal cruelty – are completely normal. The most common game is mild spanking on the butt that slightly hurts and triggers strong erotic pleasure intensified with an exhibitionistic element of spanking. Naturally, this has to remain a game and never turn into a real punishment. Both partners have to agree to the game and its rules shouldn’t be fixed. A “victim” should have a change to stop the game at any moment.

Imagination counts

Use your imagination. Your partner doesn’t even have to be present. For instance such a game is graphite writing. Have a chalk board in the bathroom. On the board, you can write or draw numerous fantasises that you don’t dare to say.

Use secret arrangements

An erotic game is conditioned by participation of partners. Therefore, you can agree on codes, completely innocent words that only you’ll understand, or simple graphic signs, such as a particular position of a spoon or salt shaker on the table, or a position of other everyday objects that don’t attract the attention of other people, but you know well what they indicate..

It’s typical of the majority of erotic games, except secret signs, that they aren’t completely coordinated: one of the partners takes the initiative, which is often improvised, and the other partner can accept or reject the game. Participation of both partners is required for this scenario.

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