Safe Bondage for Dummies

26.11.2010 | By: T. B.

Bondage is a sexual practice with many rules. So, do you know how to take care of safety when doing bondage?

In bondage, rules are absolutely necessary. (Photoxpress)

Basic bondage rules

Bondage is a game with many rules, and most rules are there with the purpose of not allowing things to get out of control. It is a sexual practice where fatalities may occur. As we can’t predict and prevent everything, it’s important to follow all the safety measures and understand that the point of bondage isn’t to hurt the person who is tied up. How to do safe bondage?

Many people feel dizzy from pleasure by just watching a person tied up in front of them, so the use of narcotics and drugs isn’t advisable. Make the rules before you start. Once the arrow has been shot, it is almost impossible to stop it, that's why you have to give it the right direction in the beginning.

Safe bondage prevents injuries

Injuries often occur when the person that is tied up falls. For safe bondage, the surface where you tie someone up should thus be big enough and secure. Falling down may take place because the equipment you use is damaged. You have to take good care of your equipment - for example, if you decide to tie your darling to a chair, make sure it doesn't have wobbly legs and is stable. A person may fall because he or she experiences a dizzy spell. The latter doesn’t happen due to exhilaration, but because the blood flow of the tied up person is poor, especially if several parts of their body are tied too strongly. Dizziness is the number one danger of bondage. Besides the person's position, dizziness can be the result of an inappropriate room temperature. If you wish to tie someone up like a mummy, the temperature can be lower than if you wish that the other person is naked. It’s useful to know that we are less likely to do safe bondage with an experienced person because such people often feel too brave and confident due to the amount of experience they have.

Endorphins are released during bondage

During bondage, large quantities of endorphins are released. They often play tricks on a person’s mind, so that he or she goes too far. We can blame endorphins for the fact that the consequences of our actions aren’t immediately clear to us, but are revealed to us only the next day when the hormone rush wears off.

Don't get us wrong: subjugation in sexuality, expressed as bondage, can greatly spice up our everyday lives. However, safe bondage is as exciting as any.