Sexual Advice for the Inexperienced Among Men (Part 1)

We present advice that is very simple and clear and should be of great help to the inexperienced. When arousing a woman, the most important thing is to find the right measure.

Some men subscribe to the theory that intercourse is meant for her pleasure. Our pleasure is guaranteed and comes of its own accord. Besides, we are simple, we have less erogenous zones and the only real form of pleasure is the orgasm, which is short and intense. Many men would not agree with these words, but most of them are true. The main pleasure a man derives from sex is contributing to her pleasure. But why does it have to be so complicated?

As shown in our poll, many people learn about sex from their friends. The latter are all excellent lovers and know everything - in the company of men only and with the help of alcohol. The short tips they give you are usually correct, but sometimes things are more difficult to perform than they are described. Let us then take a look at some tips for the inexperienced. I will add a short comment to each trick.

”Blow in her ear ...“

This is a classical piece of advice for the inexperienced that often goes wrong in practice. The ears are very sensitive and blowing too strongly can be really disrupting. If you make sounds to go with this, you have ruined your girl’s enjoyment. Take a blow-dryer and put it to your ear. Turn it on and try to masturbate. I think you get the picture. Blowing into a woman’s ear must be handled gently, only with warm breath and not directly into her auditory passage. She may like it, but it does not work with everyone.  

”Grab her boobs ... They really like it!“

Women really like to have their breasts fondled, but the inexperienced have the wrong picture of this. It is not about grabbing and squeezing, but petting. Especially young girls and pre-menstrual women are very sensitive to touch. So we do not knead them like dough. We do not shake them and bounce them here and there. We always treat them with one thought in mind – my child will feed here. Try to imagine it for a moment and never again will you grab a pair of breasts like a wild animal.

”I just put my hand in her panties and she was completely wet ...“

This can actually be true, except that your friend mixed up the reason and consequence. The girl was already wet because she was aroused and wanted to do it. The hand had nothing to do with it. The inexperienced should know that getting a hand through half-unzipped trousers, especially tight jeans, is not the most pleasant thing for a girl. It takes a lot of expertise to do something in such an awkward situation. If she really wants to shag, it will be better than nothing, if you cannot take her pants off for other reasons. Besides stretching her underwear, pushing the thong into her ass, pulling out some of her pubic hair and your fingers smelling nicely, you won't accomplish much.

Find the right spot, gently help her take her trousers off and then begin the finger action. Most women love freedom during intercourse. With men, it is enough to open their zipper, take it out and we come. Women feel the constriction of their clothes psychologically as well. If you did not take enough time to undress her or help her to do it, this shows her you are impatient and want only your own gratification. This makes women feel used, which is one of the worst feelings for a woman!