Stop Having Routine Sex

Don’t give in to sexual indifference and don’t allow a long-term relationship to be an excuse for having boring routine sex. It’s in your hands to get your sex life out of the rut!

 

Why should you always do it in the bed? (jlp)

Do it standing up

Why should you always wait to get to the bed before having a passionate intercourse? Do it without any prior notice and surprise your partner. Cling tightly to his or her body, give them a hot French kiss, if you're a woman, rub your breasts against him, and make a direct suggestion. Don’t worry, they’ll be up for it because they’re just as tired of routine sex and of sticking to the bed as you are. A man can walk up behind his partner’s back, kiss her on the neck, grab her breasts, get her against a wall and, if she's aroused enough, start penetrating.

 

If there’s no time for foreplay, masturbate on your own before your partner joins you.

Get ready on your own

If you don’t have enough time for a long foreplay and your family duties are weighing on you, get ready for sexual intercourse on your own. A woman can get herself hot with a vibrator and some beads. When the two of you get together, your passion will be at its peak, which means that no foreplay will be required. You can also masturbate together and watch each other - you’ll save time and proceed to the main course faster. Each person knows his or her body best, which means that he or she can thus get aroused in the fastest possible way. Spice up routine sex!

 

Discover his erogenous zones! (jlp)

The male body has many erogenous zones

Ladies, if you think a man is aroused only by stimulating his penis, you’re dead wrong. We suggest you take all of your partner’s clothes off and start fondling and caressing his whole body. Don’t forget a single inch and pay attention to where he reacts to sexual stimuli. Besides the penis, he’ll definitely respond to your stimulating his nipples, neck, ears, back and probably the anus. If you’re very patient and thorough, you may discover erogenous zones that even he didn’t know about. In this way, you’ll get very close to your man and you'll be well-prepared to keep away from routine sex.

Use short text messages to arouse your partner.

Build up an erotic atmosphere

If you get yourself in the right mood, the sexual intercourse will undoubtedly be better. This means that you may have to light some candles instead of turning on the lights. Sexy music might help as well. You should watch an erotic film or read an erotic story together, as this will certainly turn you on. You can tease each other via the cellphone before you actually meet. Send your partner at least a few naughty text messages and do away with the routine sex.

Rachel Carlton Abrams, the author of the book The Multi Orgasmic Woman, claims that the greater the sexual energy before the intercourse, the better the intercourse itself. The longer you stimulate each other over distance, the bigger the chances of having a strong orgasm at physical contact.

Don’t be embarrassed to look for sexual advice! Break out of your sex routine.

Search for ideas for better sexual intercourse

There are many effective ways to avoid routine sex, and sexual advice can be found everywhere nowadays: in special books in every library, in magazines, and of course on the internet, where there are thousands of tips waiting for you. Don’t be embarrassed to look for advice! Avail yourself of the opportunities afforded you. People have always exchanged ideas and experience to make their lives better, and, remember, advice is meant to be tried out.

 

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