The Clitoris Is Waiting to Be Explored

What is the clitoris, where is it located, and the most important thing, how does it function? Here is information for both men and women.

 

The clitoris is the essential gate to women's pleasure in bed. (Photoxpress)

What is the clitoris?

The clitoris is is a sensitive sexual organ, known also as the miracle button. Similar to a male's penis, the clitoris is an organ that is intertwined with numerous nerve endings and by stimulating this part most women reach orgasm much more easily.

Where is it located?

The clitoris is located at the top of the inner vaginal lips and is surrounded by the outer (larger) vaginal labia. It is a fairly small sexual organ (approximately as large as a peanut, but of course it can be larger) and its size increases during stimulation. It is surrounded by a thin membrane (less visible in some women), which moves backward during arousal.

How does it function?

Similar to the penis, the top is the most sensitive part of the clitoris. It is linked to erectile tissue which has a considerable influence on the female genitals. When a woman is sexually aroused, her clitoris fills with blood and becomes very sensitive to touch, equally to a male's penis. Men, you have to realise that for most women penetration itself does not provide great thrills (not as great as for you). For women, pleasure is ensured by the clitoris. Devote your attention to it and explore it together with your partner.

How to work with it?

As already said, this is a very sensitive organ and it responds to different types of stimuli - rubbing, kissing, licking, sucking, and the use of a vibrator, or rubbing with the penis during intercourse. Some women's clitoris is so sensitive that direct stimulation is too painful and unpleasant for them. Sometimes this may also happen if arousal is too strong.

Every person is aroused in his or her own way. Therefore, if you are not sure what your partner likes, ask her. Do not be stubborn and do not insist on doing things your own way. It may happen that she does not like your behaviour, but she does not want to correct you because she is afraid that you will be offended. Some women prefer a heavier touch and others prefer a gentler one. Tell her you want to know what she likes. Many women prefer it if you touch them around the clitoris for some time and if you start gently touching, kissing or licking their most sensitive erogenous zone only after they are already aroused.

If you two do not have problems with conversation, it is best to reveal to each other your secret desires. She will definitely not look askance at you if you ask her for advice. She will be deeply grateful that you are willing to satisfy her in the way that she likes most.

 

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