Use Your Palms to Arouse Her

Penis, vagina, clitoris, anus, lips. Any other erogenous zones? Sure. Let’s see what your palms can do.

Palms as conductors of sexual energy

With sex and sexual feelings, the most important thing is being aware of your body, its carnal and concrete quality. We are made from flesh and this flesh gives us a lot of pleasure. Palms are our conductor. They show us how the world is shaped, we use them to get to know the structure and texture of the world. Our eyes don’t tell us everything. Blind people know the world through touch and sound. They use their palms instead of their eyes. If you’re blindfolded during intercourse, you notice that all your other senses become heightened, more intense. That’s why you should try getting to know your partner’s body through touch.

Slide your palms across your partner’s skin. Reduce the touch to the smallest amount of pressure and imagine there’s an electric current flowing between your and your partner’s skin, like energy bursts. This sensation is no magic or some “hocus-pocus". Put your palms against each other and bring them closer. Relax your hands and you will feel something flowing between your palms, even though they’re not touching. Move your palms slowly apart and imagine you’re spreading this energy like dough. Your palms may start tingling or you may feel a warm sensation in them. That’s how your partner feels when your body’s near. This is a physical, concrete sensation. It causes excitement and tension, which makes this sensation even more intense. If you happen to touch your partner’s skin, your partner feels it like sparks flying.

Your partner should lie on her stomach and relax, while you move your palms a millimeter above her skin. You bathe her body with your energy, which is flowing from your fingertips. You don’t touch your partner with any other part of your body so as not to disturb her sensation. If you notice that her body hair is standing on end, you’re on the right track. Every touch becomes something special because we put all our senses into it.

When you stroke the buttocks with your palms, continue carefully and slowly to the legs and back past the buttocks all the way to the labia. Use your most gentle moves. Don’t force it, but give her the opportunity to adjust and start enjoying herself. Wait until she spreads her legs and gives you access. Only after you discover that your finger is moist when you gently touch her labia can you gently touch the middle of her vulva. Because this will divert her energy and attention and focus it on a certain body part, stop your caressing and go for something more concrete.

Palms as an erotic surface

 
You can give with your palms, but you can also receive. Your palms are the most complex part of your body. They are so many bones, joints, muscles. Fingers feel, grab, taste. If you ever read a book on palm reading, you will find out there’s a whole world hidden in your palms. Palms are very grateful if they are caressed, especially the palms of a working hand, which has to grab, pound, cut, wipe, drag and hold to make end’s meet. This kind of palm appreciates tenderness the most, so we shouldn’t forget about it during intercourse.

Each finger is delicious. Lick it, receive it with the warmth of your mouth. Use your fingers to go through your partner’s fingers, use your lips to follow the veins on the back. Use your fingers to investigate the hairy hands of a man and enjoy the tickling sensation. Let his hair tickle your lips and stimulate your fingertips. Place his palm on your crotch and simply enjoy the texture of his skin. Men should do the same when she wraps her tiny fingers around your penis – try to feel her energy and her skin texture. Let her feel your tight testicles. The warmth of her palm is indescribably intimate. Just like we use our palms to scoop up water, you should use your palms to scoop up his testicles and feel the weight of life they carry.

Palms are our perfect tools. We all use them and are skilled at using them in a certain field. Musicians, computer experts, blacksmiths, secretaries, chefs – most professions require skilful palms or at least some of its parts. Use your palms in your sex life, too. Your sexuality will take on a whole new dimension.