What if sex lasts for too long?

What can you do if he doesn't come for ages while you'd just like it to be over?

 

Sex positions in which he penetrates from behind provide you with more friction!

 

Women usually complain about sex not lasting long enough: “He merely touched me and it was all over.” Women who have such “fast lovers” are jealous of their friends who speak about an hour, two or even three hours of love-making while they themselves are in constant pain, searching for lubricants; in such cases the natural wetness of vagina is simply not enough and the friction becomes painful.

Unbridle your gentleman!

 

Your partner may be a true gentleman, holding himself back so that you could have the time of your life as long as possible. The myth of lovers who can last long hours is wide-spread and he might have some experience with women who required a long time to get started. Be honest with him and tell him that you can’t feel a thing after half an hour and that it actually hurts at some point.

 

She wants to sleep, but he doesn't let her ... (jlp)

 

Ask him if he’s holding himself back on purpose or – more tactfully – invite him seductively: “Oh, please, I want to feel you come inside me/all over me.” Your seductive voice, the mental picture of orgasm and your confidence will certainly set him on fire.

Honey, don’t play by yourself!

 

Another possible reason for the amount of time he needs to come may be a side-effect of anti-depressives or repeated and rough masturbation. This is where your seductive voice comes in again. Invite him to play with you: “Don’t play all by yourself, darling, save it for me.”  

 

Guys, show her your wilder self!

 

If this doesn’t work, try to make him come using your hands or your mouth. Positions in which he is able to penetrate you from behind are very suitable, for example doggy style or spoon positions, because they ensure more friction and consequently more pleasure for both. It is also highly advisable that you use your secret weapon – your vaginal muscles.

Break the routine and launch him into the world of (a more timely) orgasm

 

There’s a slight possibility he’s just not aroused enough and is stuck in a rut. In this case you will have to stimulate him visually and put on some sexy underwear, change positions, try out something new, for example a warming lubricant or a sex toy.

 

And now for something completely different.

If penetration lasts too long for comfort, you can shorten it by a very hot and stimulating foreplay or simply take a break when you feel you need one. You can make him come orally or by using your hands. Whatever you choose to do, try to be naughty and show him how much you enjoy his ejaculation over your stomach or breasts, or even – if you are daring enough – over your face. It’s a fact that men are mostly visual types – a new stimulant during foreplay or at the peak will help you vary the routine and end up in a terrific orgasm.   

 

For your information, dear guys, American sexologists have discovered that the best sex lasts from 7 to 13 minutes.

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