What to Do if He Can’t Climax?

10.05.2011 | By: JP

Do you sometimes wish your guy would finish faster? Well then, help him to it!

Your partner can’t climax if you just lay there motionless! (PhotoXpress)

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Try a Different Sexual Position

A lot of men just can’t climax when having sex in particular positions. The reason for it is that the head of their penis just isn’t stimulated enough. Many of them can’t climax when their partner is on top because their penis needs more stimulation in the shape of a tighter opening. While on top, a woman applies the most pressure and stimulus on the lower part of the penis, while the head of the penis, which is the most sensitive part, remains almost unaroused. If your partner can’t climax, then try a position where the whole of his penis will be stimulated appropriately. He will like it even more if you should grab him by the penis root and insert only the head of his penis into your vagina. You can also try to make him climax by laying flat on your belly and holding your legs together. While he will be penetrating you from behind, you can clench your buttocks together tightly around his penis. You can also try pressing your pelvic muscles together while clenching his penis tightly between your buttocks. With this, you should be able to arouse him best and make him climax rather soon.

Do Something Different

A lot of men who can't climax say that they actually find having sex with their partners very arousing, but that there is also something extra missing, something that could really make them climax. You can help your partner by doing something new, and special, and very arousing when you should sense that he is nearing climax. You can suck on one of his fingers, you can start moaning even louder, grab his butt, play with his testicles… Your partner can’t climax if you just lay there motionless.

Use Your Hands and Your Mouth

If you should find that penetration alone isn’t enough for your partner to climax then take his pleasure into your own hands - literally! Interrupt the intercourse and take his penis between your hands. You can also bring your mouth into play to finish him of in style. To do so, start with slow and steady movements, and then heighten the tempo as you see him getting more and more aroused. The closer he will be getting to climaxing, the tighter you may grab his “wand.” If you interrupt the stimulation process while at it, he can’t climax since his arousal level will drop quite quickly if unattended to.

Take a Pause during Penetration

It often happens the women get so aroused during sex they secrete such amounts of vaginal fluid that there is almost no friction potential within their vagina at all. A man needs to be able to experience some friction while rubbing the head of his penis against the inner walls of the vagina. If there is no friction, there is not stimulation for him and without stimulation, he can’t climax. Quite a lot of men aren’t the biggest fans of condoms since they prevent them from experiencing the sensation they desire most. Because of this, their pleasure falls short. If a man penetrates a vagina that is too moist or too wide at room temperature, he just can’t climax. If this should be the case, take a short break from penetration so that the interior of the vagina can dry a bit. While waiting for this to happen, you can basically do anything you want to keep each other aroused.

Exalt His Imagination

Men, all kinds of men, the ones who come really fast and the ones who can’t climax, are distinctly visual human beings. If you’re involved in a long-term relationship or marriage, we are very much convinced that your partner still thinks that you're the most beautiful woman in the world, but your gorgeous tits and ass, which he has seen thousands and thousands of times by now, just won’t do it on their own. A lot of men lead themselves to orgasm by closing their eyes and fantasizing about having sex with a different woman. This may sound shocking to you but it is an unavoidable fact. Instead of sulking about it, though, you can turn it to your favor! Be creative and play dress up. Become a perky maid, a sexy nurse, an innocent bride in white, or a native school girl; whatever pleases and fits you best. You could also suggest that you watch some porn together - see how quickly he will be able to climax after that!

Forbid Him to Masturbate

It can also happen, and it happens very often, that some man can't climax when having sex with their partner because they masturbate too much. Masturbation is a great form of relaxation, but it also curbs the sexual tension that is very much needed in order to be able to have sex. Take the appropriate measures and forbid him to masturbate. Take away all of his saucy magazines and put all porn DVDs under lock and key, and throw away the key! He might be grouchy at first, but he will kiss your feet after you’ve led him to an unforgettable orgasm!