What to do if she’s having louder orgasms on her own?

Dear men, it’s time to let go of the belief that the loudness of moaning sets the power of an orgasm because this is the wrong way of thinking.

 

Your partner may not have had the chance to experience a relaxed orgasm in the past.

Quiet orgasms can sometimes be more powerful then loud ones

Because the female orgasm is a bit more complicated than the male and is in fact invisible, many physical signals can lead us to the wrong conclusion. For example, men can’t ever know for certain when women are faking an orgasm and when the orgasms are real, except if you know your partner and her body really well. One other thing that men find hard to fathom on first sight is the intensity of the female orgasm. If your partner is hardly audible during one orgasm and is moaning loudly without reservations another time, it’s no guarantee that she’s experiencing strong orgasms only when she’s loud. Sometimes the strongest orgasms are the ones where the contraction is so strong that it stifles any moan and groan at that moment. Moans and groans occur only after vaginal contractions let up a bit.

Loudness sometimes works as an aphrodisiac

Some men also like to determine how good they are as lovers by how loud the woman is during intercourse. The louder the woman is, the more self-confident they feel in bed. This is what gives porn actors self-confidence because the actress creates the atmosphere of great sex with her loud moaning and convinces the viewers that she’s really turned on. To some people loud moaning and a loud orgasm also represent an additional sexual stimulant. The arousal doesn’t become greater with loudness for men. Believe it or not, some women get really aroused during intercourse when listening to their own moans, so they like to reach orgasms accompanied by loud panting.

The louder the woman is, the more self-confident men feel in bed.

'Has the vibrator become my competition?'

We’re convinced that many couples spice up their sexual games with erotic accessories and that the experience is usually very pleasant. But the experience is probably less pleasant for men who are occasionally surprised by the loud moaning of their partner when she’s reaching an orgasm with a vibrator. Dear men, loudness means nothing, so don’t worry and forget about the ridiculous theories which explain that the vibrator is your competition and that your partner is experiencing better and stronger orgasms with it. The truth is hidden somewhere else. Her loudness is also triggered by the feeling that she’s being watched. The fact that you’re watching her triggers the same exhibitionistic feeling as with porn actresses or strippers in night clubs. They want to give you an unforgettable erotic show and get you really turned on. At those times women like to get into the role of a dirty girl and when excessive loudness occurs, it isn’t an indicator of the intensity of the orgasm.

Quiet orgasms may have their origins in the past

A woman who has been reaching her orgasm quietly for all her life, whether while masturbating or with a partner, will usually have a hard time liberating herself to such a degree that her orgasms would become loud. Dear men, when you really want to hear her moan loudly during an orgasm, you may have to give her a bit of encouragement sometimes. Your partner may not have had the chance to experience a relaxed orgasm in the past. The most frequent reason for this is the constant presence of other people in the household, for example parents. A reason for quiet orgasms can also be a reserved upbringing regarding conversation and knowledge about sexuality. When sex is presented as a sin, there’s a chance that reaching an orgasm will also bring on feelings of sin in a woman and she’ll try to hide this with a quiet orgasm.

 

 

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