What to Do if Your Partner Doesn’t Want to Have Intercourse?

It must have already happened to you that your partner turned down your initiative for intercourse. Rejection in bed can be very unpleasant, especially if it keeps happening.

 

If your partner rejects your desire to have intercourse, don’t give up but attack again. (jlp)

Don’t give up at the first rejection

 

Couples sometimes aren’t synchronized when it comes to sex, which means that one may really want to have intercourse, while the other one just wants to sleep or watch television. This is particularly true of couples where the man is, say, a morning type, while the woman wants to play between the sheets in the evening. There’s nothing wrong with this because you can make compromises. The problem occurs when there’s rejection - when one partner pushes the other away, removes their hand and clearly lets the partner know that sex is not an option even remotely. If the wish of the partner who wants to have intercourse is very strong, there’s a problem because this person wants to satisfy his/her desires and the partner isn’t enabling this at that moment.

Confidence is an additional problem because it may happen that the rejected partner feels miserable and becomes extremely sad or even angry. This person may think that their partner doesn’t want him/her anymore. That’s why you shouldn't give up so fast. Don’t give up if your partner lets you know they’re not interested in sex. Keep trying. Stimulate them and convince them that the mood is right, especially if you know that whatever they’re doing isn’t all that important.

Don’t take rejection too hard. Wait for a better moment. (jlp)

Don’t take rejection too hard

 

If lack of interest in sex isn’t of frequent occurrence and is an exception, you have no good reason to feel bad. Your partner undoubtedly still loves you, which means that they still want you, they just don't want to have intercourse at the moment. Perhaps they really need only a bit more effort on your behalf, or you must only wait an hour or so and everything will unfold nicely. That’s why you shouldn’t be sad or angry because that will only make the situation worse and more complicated. Your partner will get the impression that you’re angry with them because they didn’t want to have intercourse, which means they’ll take sex as an obligation.

We advise you to collect yourself in such a situation and don’t react too fast. Wait for a later moment, maintain your desire to have intercourse and let your lover know that nothing’s wrong if they rejected you. Don’t reject your partner some time later only because they rejected you. This is the worst thing you can do. Rejection happens simply because the time isn’t right and because you two aren't sexually synchronized at the moment.

If your partner isn’t in the mood for intercourse, try to persuade them with some hot moves. (jlp)

How to convince your partner to have intercourse?

 

Women definitely have the upper hand here. They can use their charms and convince their men to have intercourse no matter how sleepy the latter are. The best start is, of course, a naked body. You should push it tightly against the man, who will undoubtedly wake up. If that’s not enough, start licking his nipples and kissing his neck. If he’s still half asleep, we suggest a quick blowjob, which he definitely won’t reject. Perhaps the last option’s the best because all the others are too mild if he’s sleepy. A blowjob can also be excellent foreplay, which can soon change into the so-called riding position, which means that the woman will get what she wants.

If we’re talking about a busy man, we suggest walking around in your underwear, or even walking naked in the apartment. This will have to get his attention. Don’t despair too soon. Enjoy the challenge of making him want to have intercourse with you.

Men might have a few more problems because it’s known that women get aroused with more difficulty and more slowly. A woman will also really enjoy oral intercourse or having her nipples licked for a start and she won’t be able to remain indifferent long.

In any case, rejection is certainly not as bad as it may seem at first, especially if it doesn’t happen often.

 

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