Why Doesn’t She Want to Perform the Art of Fellatio?

Let's give you a few reasons why your partner might be discouraged from performing the art of fellatio. You should always take care that your penis is clean, and you should be very gentle and appreciative of your partner when she performs fellatio on you.

 

You have to be respectful towards your partner during her performance in the art of fellatio. (jlp)

Intimate hygiene

 

Women are very sensitive and careful about personal hygiene, especially when it comes to your penis, which has an unpleasant smell if you don’t wash it regularly and in the right way. You may have a shower in the morning, but that doesn’t mean you’ll still be fresh and clean in the afternoon, especially if you’ve had a tough day and the parts around the genitalia are sweaty, not to mention that you’ve also probably been to the toilet a number of times. It’s a good idea to wash your penis the moment you come home because in this case you’re prepared for any possible sexual activities which may occur spontaneously, especially for the art of fellatio. It would be a bit awkward if your partner told you to have a shower just before oral intercourse. It’s even better to wash your penis each time you urinate. You don’t have to do it in the shower - just lean over the washbowl and do it quickly. We also suggest moisturising handkerchiefs, which you can carry with you all the time.

 

Always take care of your personal hygiene. (jlp)

Never force her into deep throat

 

Many women hate it when men grab their heads and hair roughly during fellation and try to set the pace and depth of the act. They can easily push the penis too deep into the throat and even cause them to feel a bout of vomiting coming on. Perhaps such actions also discourage your partner from the art of fellatio because she doesn’t like roughness and wants to work on your penis in her own way, perhaps with total commitment and with pleasure. Even though the man may be seen as "in charge" during a blowjob, that doesn’t mean he does not have to care about the wellbeing of the woman. We advise you to let her do it just as she wants to. It's a serious mistake to demand things which don’t turn her on. The best thing you can do is to lie on your back, put your hands behind your neck and surrender to her.

 

Don’t force your partner into deep throat. (jlp)

Don't feel bad if she doesn’t want to swallow your sperm

 

Many men expect their women to swallow their sperm at the end of a blowjob. They’re disappointed and perhaps even angry if she doesn’t do that. But don’t be foolish - she simply doesn't like the idea of having your sperm in her mouth. Don’t complain if she spits the sperm out or redirects your orgasm onto her breasts. If you do otherwise, you shouldn’t be surprised when one day she tells you that she’s no longer willing to train in the art of felllatio.

 

Don’t judge her if she doesn’t want to swallow your sperm. (jlp)

Don’t humiliate her by demanding the art of fellatio

 

Some men also make the mistake of looking at their partner as an object during oral intercourse, a whore who’s there simply to work on their penis. They don’t see oral intercourse as a beautiful art of fellatio, offered to them by a person who loves them. They see it not as a gift, but as an obligation, something the woman must do without objections. This will discourage most women. Also, don't forget that you can’t get it at exactly the time you want it because your partner must want it as well. Allow her to surprise you with it.

 

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