Why Has Her Orgasm Suddenly Disappeared?

26.12.2010 | By: I. M.

When one of the segments is missing during sexual intercourse, the orgasm can simply disappear. So, how to get it back?

 


There can be a sudden decrease in the level of female arousal during intercourse. (Photoxpress)

There can be a sudden decrease in the level of female arousal during intercourse. (Photoxpress)

A decrease in the level of arousal makes the orgasm disappear

It sometimes happens that the level of arousal can decrease with both men and women in an instant and all the desire of continuing the sexual activity is gone. In most cases, the sudden drop in arousal happens to women because some women experience sexuality in a more complex way than men. While this problem is exhibited in the loss of the erection with men, the amount of moisture is decreased and the orgasm suddenly disappears with women, even though it seemed like she was close to a climax just a few minutes ago. When a man notices this, he is faced with a dilemma whether to continue with the intercourse and take care of his own needs first or take care of satisfying his lady first and have his own orgasm later. The second option is definitely better because the arousal returns as quickly as it disappeared. In such a case, continue with some oral gratification, for example, for a short period of time, until you feel your partner is completely hot and moist again.

A change of sexual activity can cause problems

Women are different, some even more demanding than men during intercourse and sometimes the change of activity during sexual intercourse can cause us problems. While a vast majority of men doesn’t care if the intercourse is oral, vaginal or anal, women sometimes feel good only with one at a given moment. When we really want a penis, a tongue can’t really satisfy us and vice versa. Sometimes we want it rough and sometimes we’re much more turned on by slow and gentle lovemaking. The loss of an orgasm and a decrease of arousal happen when the sexual activity suddenly changes. Women who experience vaginal stimulation and a Opens internal link in current windowvaginal orgasm more intensely most often feel this when their partner suddenly takes his penis away from them and continues with oral gratification. Women who feel clitoral stimulation more intensely may lose an orgasm if the partner stops oral intercourse at a crucial moment and starts with penetration. The arousal naturally returns when you continue with the previous way of sexual gratification again.

An orgasm can disappear because of everyday troubles

Everyday troubles and burdens can easily overshadow sexual life. Besides causing a decrease in the number of sexual encounters, they can help women lose their orgasms as well. As soon as everyday problems start creeping into our thoughts during intercourse, the primal sexual sensations are gone. This can be followed by a decrease in the level of arousal and consequently the woman can lose her orgasm. It is very important not to surrender to negative thoughts about our own sexuality in situations like these because such thoughts could lead to anorgasmia. If dealing with your everyday burdens is stopping you from relaxing sexually, share this with your partner, so that he doesn’t come to the wrong conclusions. He should also know what’s hindering your sexuality because that is the only way for him to help you relax before intercourse, with a nice massage or something else.

Being tired or when women just “want to get it over with”

Women are generally much more burdened than men. Sometimes, this also creeps into our bed, so the arousal at the start can quickly be followed by a decrease of passion or libido. In such a case, women often forget about their own satisfaction and give their partners the all clear for a one-sided orgasm because they feel that their climax is a long way away and they secretly “want to get it over with” as soon as possible. But dear men, don’t surrender to your girl’s laziness. Make an effort nonetheless because an orgasm will relax her and take her into the land of Nod, so that she can gather strength for a new day.

One of the reasons might also be that she is cheating on you. Find out if she is cheating on you!

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