Wisdom You Can Use in the Bedroom

18.04.2010 | By: T. G.

Don’t waste time with things that don’t suit you. Every idea can turn someone on, but not everyone.

1. All the joy of sex and love is that there are no rules if you enjoy it and the choice is unlimited.

Sex is an area where the boundaries between decent and indecent are difficult to determine. (PhotoXpress)

2. The bed is a place where you can play all the games you’ve ever wanted. This is essential for a comprehensive, active and healthy view on sex between two persons who are devoted to each other. Together with their clothes, they take off the mask of pretence.

3. There are only two important guidelines for good sex: “don’t do anything that displeases you” and “discover your partner’s needs and don’t disappoint him/her if possible.”

4. When you discover your partner’s needs and learn to satisfy them in bed, this isn’t just interesting, informative and gratifying – this is the true sexual love.

5. You have to learn to use all the surface of the skin, your perception of identity, aggressiveness and so on, to fulfil all your fantasy desires.

An agreement between sexual partners is what counts. (PhotoXpress)

6. The greatest erotic asset of a woman and the essence of her "beauty" is her natural odor that comes from her whole body, hair, breasts, armpits and genitalia. Body odor and the touch of a man’s skin is associated with sexual attraction more than any other characteristic.

7. Sex should be a satisfying bond between the partners which saves them from anxiety and rewards and tempts them again and again.

8. Women who have truly learned to enjoy sex are usually fascinated with their partner’s penis just as men are fascinated with their breasts, shapes, smell and touch, and they learn to play with it skilfully. A good hand and mouth are, so to speak, a guarantee for a good partner in bed.

The skin is the largest erogenous zone. People often forget that. (PhotoXpress)

9. Tenderness doesn’t exclude extremely wild games (although many people don’t like and need them) and is completely expressed in the way you touch each other.

10. Women often don’t use enough pressure, particularly in a “hand job”, though a gentle variant can also be a unique thrill. Start very gently and use the whole surface of the skin. Then intensify caressing. A man’s power in sex is a stimulant, but it isn’t expressed in strong hugs and brute force.