A Small Penis Is Just Plain Small

11.09.2012 | By: T. P.

A small penis undermines many men’s self-confidence. But does it really have to be like that?

Don’t let your small penis be the cause for a bad mood and lack of self-confidence. (PhotoXpress)

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Small penis cause the lack of self-confidence

The majority of websites selling instruments for penis enlargement have similar advertisements, such as statements by anonymous customers about their lack of self-confidence. For instance, a woman started laughing on a date when she saw his penis. He left his football team because he noticed in the shower that everyone had a larger penis than him. He’s afraid of going to a date because he feels that he won’t be able to satisfy his partner. All these quasi-statements have only one aim; to persuade readers that they have a small penis and that they can’t be self-confident if they don’t have a large one. The statements are written in a cunning way; for instance, I don’t feel self-confident enough because other people laugh at me. As a small penis is always the cause for laughter, people will laugh at me and I’ll fell unconfident again. They have to convince their customers (if they aren’t convinced yet) that a small penis is an important factor when you’re assessed by other people. In the next step, they convince you that if you have a small penis, this’ll definitely evoke a response in others that won’t have a positive effect on your self-confidence.

What is the source of self-confidence?

Small people should be asked how smallness affects self-confidence. They have to feel very unconfident because they’re small. Self-confidence that has an external source is, unfortunately, not self-confidence, but merely commonness. You can always stand out from commonness in two ways: positively (you have more, better, stronger, larger, faster) or negatively (you have less, worse, weaker, smaller, slower). A small penis stands out negatively. It’s smaller and therefore unusual. The way merchants have succeeded to persuade people that smallness is connected with the level of self-confidence would be a good thriller. But it doesn’t need to be like that.

What people think about you has no relevance to your self-confidence!

Naturally, that’s the goal, but the path to acquire it is difficult. We always depend to some extent on what other people think about us and this also somehow defines us. But you have to be able to know the difference between your and other people’s opinions. Your self-confidence is always put to the test when you run into someone. It’s accepting other people and not comparing yourself to them that can help you stop building your self-confidence on the image of another person. If that person has a larger penis, that’s great. Maybe he enjoys sex more and satisfies a woman more easily, but he’s no less or more than you. He just has a large penis.

What people think about you doesn’t depend on the size of your penis!

Maybe you’ll notice a look, or maybe a woman won’t be satisfied with your penis. But if someone forms a certain opinion about you on the basis of this fact (size of your penis), you may safely ignore it. It’s doesn’t matter what a person who respects you on the basis of your penis size thinks about you. However, such people are rare and only our own fear gives as an idea that everyone is watching us in our genitals and that we have a small penis. In fact, people are amazed when they see a truly small penis and just can’t believe it. If they laugh, it isn’t because they would want to insult you, but because they’re shocked by the image. Most people immediately notice that their behavior could hurt your feelings, but the minority don’t recognize that fact. It’s best that you laugh as well. Shame and hiding won’t make your penis any larger. Let the poor lad jut out and don’t be ashamed to show it. Only fools will judge you by the size of your penis and you don’t need those in your life.