Are you for fresh meat or mature beauty?

5.07.2011 | By: T. P.

Some men mature together with their women, while others never get tired of feisty young girls. Why is this so?

Some men never get tired of young girls. (PhotoXpress)

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Fresh meat

There are men who are crazy for young girls. The ideal example is the infamous writer Michel Houellebecq. All slightly autobiographic heroes in his novels are addicted to fresh meat. If they notice cellulite, sagging breasts, wrinkled skin, they simply don’t have an erection. Even if they’re in love and love, older women are simply repulsive to them. Try as they might, the sex isn’t the same, it doesn’t satisfy them and they find fresh meat sooner or later. This isn’t connected to paedophilia, even though it’s not far away from it. It’s a connection between an impulse and desire. During the development of sexuality the touch or visual impulse connects with the sexual instinct, the desire for sex and with the erection in a certain way. Such men can’t help themselves very much. They’re like a poor dog who drools when the bell rings. If they don’t get a specific impulse or they aren’t capable of imagining it, then they can’t have sex because they don’t get an erection or lose it immediately. If they manage to have sex, the orgasm is weak or doesn’t even occur. Such men can be helped by time or therapy, which reveals and removes the barriers and blockages that disable a normal connection between impulses and reactions. We can naturally also say that every man has his own taste, but the meaning is the same.

Mature woman

The change in the structure of the title already tells us that a massive change has occurred. The adjective “young” has been changed into “mature”. She’s changed from being flesh into being a woman. This is a significant change, which also points to a different concept of sexuality. A mature woman is erotic precisely as a woman. Her maturity, serious views and power are the things which turn a man on. A full developed body, perhaps a bit rounder, wrinkly and soft isn’t disturbing but becomes irrelevant. We make love to a person, another being, not a piece of meat. There are no power struggles anymore, no more fear about performing and other youthful problems. Sex becomes about surrendering and pleasure. Men are visual beings, so there aren’t many of us who could see sex in a different light, not only as the consequence of a bell ringing. Many men aren’t even aware that sex doesn’t depend on the beauty or attractiveness of the other person, but on your own desire for sex which isn’t necessarily connected to an exterior impulse. If we want to love somebody we love, it’s pretty insignificant how many wrinkles they have under their eyes, how many stretch marks there are on the belly, how much cellulite and wrinkled skin there is. It’s known why a mature woman has intercourse – for pleasure.

Men mature

There are no rules. There are many types of men. When we‘re young, we love youth. There are only a few men who are attracted to older women. Adult men are attracted to everything and every man develops in his own way. Some men look after every young girl when they’re fifty and they drool and stare. They have a swelling between their legs. They’re not attracted to mature women. They’re not attracted by their meat. Others develop slowly and their taste develops accordingly. They like to look at fresh meat, they like women in general, regardless of age. They think fresh meat is beautiful, but it brings out their paternal instincts, not their sexual ones. Even though they’re attracted by them, the thought of sex never pops into their minds. Others like to experiment, they change their tastes and keep things fresh. They like the firm bottoms of 18 year-old girls and they like to bury their heads between the ample tits of a matron who had just turned fifty. If we want to draw some kind of conclusion, we can say the following:

There are men who love sex and love having sex. Their instinct is focused on satisfaction and is not connected to exterior impulses, even though they’re welcome. There are also men who can only have sex if they get the right exterior impulse. The first men are free and much easier to satisfy than the second type of men. These are a modern variety of Dorian Gray. They think they’re not getting old as long as they feast on fresh meat. Only a look into the mirror will wake them up because they’ll be able to see how decayed they are.