Dilemmas of Giving or Receiving It Orally

30.12.2010 | By: T. B.

What are the objections of men and women to oral intercourse? Why do they feel like that?

A woman is often faced with a dilemma about giving and receiving. (Photoxpress)

Women and oral intercourse

Women and their attitude towards performing it orally

A lot of women take oral intercourse for granted. However, does that mean all women also really love to perform it? There is nothing wrong if a woman actually enjoys oral intercourse. Thank god if she does. But why women who dislike oral intercourse perform it and why do they dislike it at all? Women often perform oral intercourse due to the feelings of obligation because they like to please. This is often the result of a woman’s insecurities about herself, her partner’s love and their relationship. This is also caused by the fear that the man will find a mistress who will satisfy him. Women should throw off their shackles that have been put on them by the environment. Oral intercourse is nothing unnatural or painful. But it can be if you dislike it.

Women and their attitude towards receiving it orally

Women are much less decisive and demanding as regards receiving oral intercourse. Despite their desire for oral intercourse, some women don’t dare ask for or suggest it. This results from their insecurities about their vagina. You probably know the saying that a woman’s genitals smell of fish. Some women have taken that too personally. They are ashamed of their genitals and don’t want to look at them nor does it occur to them to send the man down there. But if they do that, they aren’t relaxed and don’t enjoy it.

Men and oral intercourse

Men and their attitude towards performing it orally

People have different priorities in sexual life and that is completely normal and natural. So, there are men who are crazy about oral intercourse, men who perform it and men who don’t perform it at all. And there are also those who have double standards − they don’t give oral intercourse to their partner, but they can perform it elsewhere. Men have a similar attitude towards a woman’s genitals than women. They can be equally reserved or burden themselves with odor, shape or the morality of oral intercourse.

Men and their attitude towards receiving it orally

Men rarely have objections if a woman works on their penis with her mouth. A lot more men can clearly express their desire and need for oral intercourse. There are few men who feel dislike to it for any particular reason. Some men may have objections and find it more difficult to receive it from their partner as well as a strange woman.

People have different priorities and desires. Some people fancy one thing, while others fancy another thing. There is nothing unusual if oral intercourse isn’t on the list of priorities. But there is a difference if something isn’t very important to us or we dislike it. Those who are capable of truly surrendering in and feeling pleasure in their sexual life are amazed at every part of their body and what it offers them. A dislike for the penis, breasts and the odor of the vagina shows a certain level of uneasiness.