Everything You Need to Know about Female Orgasm to Make a Woman Come

24.03.2010 | By: T. P.

Women often wonder whether their orgasms are real, or whether they can be better, and men wonder how to make a woman come ...

Women achieve the best orgasms by themselves. (jlp)

Orgasm is orgasm

Make a woman come by understanding the nature of female orgasm. There are no different types of orgasm, only different ways of achieving it. Physically, you always reach an orgasm in the same way: it involves contractions of the vaginal muscles and the pelvic region. Even if a woman achieves a breast orgasm or an orgasm while dreaming, she will always experience contractions of the same muscles. Maybe you have a feeling that origins are different, but in the end they all lead to the same fact. Of course, there are as many orgasms as you can achieve. Every orgasm is somewhat different from the previous one, although they are basically the same.

Freud deceived the 20th century by dividing orgasms into the clitoral and vaginal ones. He deceived me, too. Until recently I believed that the clitoral orgasm is only a reflection of the vaginal orgasm. However, there is only one truth, and this is that orgasms differ from a woman to woman to such an extent that it has been impossible to put forth a uniform theory. And it is easy for men to believe that the vaginal orgasm is the only real one because in that way a woman’s pleasure is somehow linked to them. Freud also succumbed to such chauvinism, although he developed a complex theory of it. But today sexologists agree that orgasm is orgasm - and, in most cases, it is the clitoral one. Nevertheless, there are exceptions.

In most cases, women experience the clitoral orgasm. (jlp)

“Where are the limits of my orgasm?”

Orgasm in women is like a vintage wine. It matures with years. It starts as an exciting and shocking discovery and then continues its development in terms of quality and quantity. Because women feel their orgasmic energy increasing, some of them wonder where the limits of their orgasms are.

Some of them seek sequences, while others seek power or a different feeling. There is a double sequence of orgasms. You can experience multiple or consecutive orgasms: multiple orgasms mean that just after one orgasm you achieve another, stronger one, with further stimulation, as a sort of undulation where waves are higher and higher. Consecutive orgasms are those where the undulation between the first and second orgasm ceases and the next orgasm starts anew.

Every woman is capable of reaching both, but consecutive orgasms are much easier to achieve. Some women experience clitoral hyperaesthesia after reaching orgasm and any kind of further stimulation causes unpleasant feelings for them, so they need to take a break.

Some women are considerably burdened with the question of orgasm. (jlp)

The power of orgasm increases with the maturity of a woman, and there are various techniques that might help, too. If you want to make a woman come, you should know that the first and most essential element that increases the power of orgasm, particularly in young women, seem to be passion. Passion feeds orgasms to the highest possible level. However, we all know that passion is in inverse proportion to the length of a relationship. Experienced women therefore don't rely on it any more.

Women have to explore the power of orgasm. Every woman is influenced by something else. In general, the power of orgasm is increased by prolonged sexual intercourse. Make a woman come so that she will be left breathless: if you constantly raise the level of stimulation and stop just before reaching the climax and then continue, you can achieve very powerful orgasms.

The other way of achieving orgasms is to find an optimal toy for your stimulation. Just the right size - penis, dildo, vibrator, and stimulation of all erogenous zones. A woman can find out what is the most optimal thing for her by chance or through an experiment.

Make a woman come by using different ways to take her beyond limits. (jlp)

Beyond the limits

A different level of experiencing orgasm is the last resort for those who are bored with everything. As orgasm is basically always the same, you can only change the way of reaching it. Anal sex, piercing of private parts, causing pain, extreme feelings, heat, cold, mental deviations and fantasies, double penetration, pissing, and so on ...

However, the different feeling mostly satisfies and serves your physical needs, while the limits of orgasm remain within the scope of quantity and quality. Still, anyone who enjoys such sexual practices as tantra, goes beyond limits. This involves energy flows, opening of chakras, surpassing of the physical level of orgasm and so on. Where are the final limits remains unanswered.