Female Ejaculation - a Myth or Reality?

21.08.2010 | By: K. Z.

The mystery of female ejaculation still hasn't been solved and many claim it is just a myth. But what if it is true?

The aura of mystery which shrouds female ejaculation is so opaque that some skeptics seriously doubt its existence. (Photoxpress)

The aura of mystery which shrouds female ejaculation is so opaque that some skeptics seriously doubt in its existence. (Photoxpress)

Female ejaculation is even more mysterious than

female orgasm and if you mentioned it to a friend or an acquaintance, they would probably tell you that they have never witnessed anything like that. This aura of mystery which shrouds female ejaculation is so opaque that some skeptics seriously doubt the existence of female ejaculation. But for some men female ejaculation presents a threat to their aptitude, which was, until recently, solely in the domain of men. Ejaculating semen was a masculine activity, but now also women claim it as their own. Be as it may, certain facts sowed the seed of doubt and we can no longer dispute the existence of female ejaculation with the same certainty as in the past.

What exactly is female ejaculation?

Let's start with purely physical characteristics of female ejaculation. This term is used because it appears to be similar to man's experience of orgasm. Apart from this female and male ejaculations are both accompanied by intensive orgasm. Ejaculation is therefore an expulsion of liquid from urethra, either in a form of a small waterfall or as a few drops. However this liquid isn't urine, although certain substances, commonly found in it, are present.

Why some women experience ejaculation?

According to some information only 40 percent of women are capable of experiencing ejaculation, but this of course doesn't mean that other 60 percent should feel bad about it. Such low percentage is a consequence of numerous factors, which originate in limited knowledge of one's body and certain prejudice concerning female ejaculation. The fact is that it is impossible to experience ejaculation every time when having intercourse since a systematic stimulation of G-spot is required. As we know the stimulation of G-spot is something that a woman has to learn on her own by becoming aware of her body and of the pleasures the body has to offer. Another reason that only a few women actually ejaculate is that the feeling before the ejaculation is very similar to the feeling you get when you have to urinate. Thus women who are about to ejaculate often hold it back, thinking that they will pee on their partner.

Free your mind and ejaculate

But because there are quite a few who don't like having a “golden shower”, it is completely understandable, that women aren't so adventurous when it comes to experimenting with ejaculation. Therefore it is better to first try ejaculating during masturbation, in the privacy of your bathroom, maybe in a bath tub. You will leak a few drops of urine without being embarrassed and learn how you feel before ejaculation. Thus you will gain the necessary self-confidence to indulge in ejaculation also during intercourse. You should ask your partner to be more open-minded and face him with a possibility of a wetter experience. The quest for ejaculation can be very intimate and it can bring you even closer. So don't be embarrassed if you accidentally leak a few drops of urine during this quest.