Find Out What Women Fantasize About!

6.09.2010 | By: T. B.

Do you want to know which are their most common fantasies and how the women experience them? Do not miss this article then.

Fantasies improve your sexual life. (Photoxpress)

Fantasies are actually a part of all of us

First theorists, who started researching sexuality, thought that sexual daydreaming is pathological and shows that the person is problematic. Nowadays we know that they were wrong. It is the opposite – persons who fantasize have a more fulfilling personality. Sexual fantasies are the commonest form of sexual expression. Some researches show that 95-100 % of men and women fantasize. During the actual intercourse 60-90 % of people fantasize. Most people start fantasizing about sexual things between the ages of 11 and 13, the use of fantasies decreases with age. The difference between genders becomes evident, when we look at how often we fantasize. The researches show that men fantasize more often, but this does not mean that women do not fantasize. Let us take a look now at some of the most frequent fantasies which move about in female brains.

Top 10 most common female fantasies

1. Her domination:

She takes you in her hands. You are at her mercy. She ties you to the bed. She is in control and has your devotion.

2. Your domination:

Women fantasize of a caveman who would grab them, threw them on the bed, spread their legs and fill them up with their penis. She wants a wild man who would grab her by the hair and bite her flesh. Of course, your domination is only wanted in the bedroom.

3. Spanking:

Many women fantasize of being bent over and spanked on their bottom like little girls or at least punished with rough sexual intercourse, because they misbehaved.

4. Sex with a stranger:

An attractive man sits down at her table in the coffeehouse, they immediately sense sexual attraction, then he grabs her and they start making wild love in his apartment. The next day she realizes that she does not even know his name... Yes, intimacy without any obligations really makes their imagination run wild.

5. Threesome with another woman:

This usually means that you are a spectator in the threesome until she is ready to receive you. This way she can experience both worlds at the same time.

6. Threesome with two men:

This fantasy arouses female imagination in a special way. Threesome is still considered a taboo for many. It is based on the concept of two men being able to fill all her holes. But only few women ever actually make this fantasy a reality.

7. Voyeurism:

Voyeurism is an especially attractive form of living out your fantasies. It means that we are a part of the action, but are not directly involved in it. Voyeurs are heavily marked despite the fact that we are actually all voyeurs. When we watch adult movies we also observe others having intercourse, right?

8. Rape:

No woman wants to be raped, but they want dirty, raw sexual intercourse without the feeling of guilt. Believe it or not, many women get aroused just thinking about being raped – previously approved by them, of course...

9. Exhibitionism:

Home videos and photography are alluring to women also. Unfortunately, many wish it but do not go there, since many women are not satisfied with their figure. We can also file sex in public places under exhibitionism. It is forbidden and there is also a chance we might be seen.

10. Striptease:

You would enjoy her, and she would enjoy your admiration. Make her relax so she will dance a striptease for you. Women, do not suppress your fantasies. You can be sure your partner will not mind.

Fantasies are welcome

Fantasies increase the excitement and can have a positive affect on our sexual life. Usually those who use them more often, benefit from them between the sheets. Fantasies are a completely normal and healthy way of exploring our sexuality, getting aroused and a unique opportunity to make our most hidden sexual wishes come true in the warm intimacy of our imagination. They are also some sort of exercise, well hidden from the eyes and ears of nosy individuals, and a diverse form of sexual practice, 100 % safe from any sexually transmitted diseases.