Old-Fashioned When It Comes to Sexual Intercourse?

31.05.2011 | By: K. Z.

Are you also wondering if you’re stuck in time when it comes to sexuality? Let us console you.

Some people find intercourse in the bathroom a taboo, while others like to change places to have intercourse in. (PhotoXpress)

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Is intercourse a natural need?

We often discuss intercourse as a natural desire, an instinct and urge. We often forget that, besides biology, society and culture also enter into sexuality and so we can’t talk about universal truths and laws.

If they used to have relations quietly and in the dark, under the covers and in long sack-like nightgowns, intercourse has nowadays escaped from purist hands, at least when it comes to principles. It has become free and the only obstacle you have to acknowledge is the consent of the other person. Sexual toys, games, accessories, role playing, switching partners, group intercourse, solo intercourse, fetishes and sadomasochistic intercourse are only some forms of sexual behaviour that no longer need to be hidden. Pleasure which was once forbidden can now breathe freely. The question of what’s normal and what’s not hardly even matters anymore.

Even though Alfred Kinsey revealed in the late 1940s and early 1950 in his Kinsey Reports that people did many things in the privacy of their bedroom that weren’t so legal at that time, nowadays the bedroom fun has become revealed and public. If the action in the bedroom used to be whispered into the ear of your best friend, we can discuss these matters in a relaxed manner even when we have an afternoon chat during a cup of tea. Sexual intercourse has become much more ordinary, something we all do and enjoy unashamedly and experiment with. Besides, new horizons are also opening up, we’re spreading our knowledge and gaining new experience.

Is it wrong to go with the times when it comes to intercourse?

The adult industry offers us various accessories and stimulants, which makes the number of options even greater. Do you think that all these options and variations make your choice impossible and you simply don’t know how to handle things? There’s no reason to panic because everything’s relative. Just as some people like slow and long running, others prefer a fast and explosive sprint. Some enjoy marathon intercourse that lasts the whole night, others like doing it quickly and dynamically. Some people enjoy taking walks, others hate it. So there’s no guarantee that we all like anal plugs or role playing. We could find many other comparisons which remind us that sexual pleasure and preferences are only a matter of taste.