Sexual Attraction - Do You Have The "JeNeSaisQuoi" to Get It?

12.05.2010 | By: A. B.

Sex makes the world go round. But do you have the "JeNeSaisQuoi" to get it?

We are seduced by her irresistible sexual charisma.

JeNeSaisQuoi – People who have "it"

In anthropological terminology, "it" is described with the word "mana", namely, in the sense of a sum of the most positive human characteristics. The sum of all the things which drive the opposite-sex as well as same-sex people wild. "It" could also be called charisma – either way something the person has, which arouses intense excitement in another person. The trick is actually in the term itself which does not exist in reality. The "JeNeSaisQuoi" is very difficult to sum up in one word since "it" is all the sexual energy an individual sees in another person. In Hollywood celebrities considered as sex symbols were defined as the "it girl", meaning girls who have "it". Something which cannot be described with words and something which is much better described by the girl’s figure.

JeNeSaisQuoi - Love and "mana"

And this is the most important thing about the "JeNeSaisQuoi". If you do not have "it", you just do not have "it". You cannot learn "it". You are born with "it". You either have "mana" or you do not. Of course, "it" also depend on taste, which means that somebody is sexually attractive to one person but not to another. And this sexual energy can already be felt by looking at a person. This is a person who gives you a tingling sensation and already drives you to ecstasy with a gentle touch. Perhaps by undoing a button on his shirt or arranging her skirt. Everything attracts you about this person. Every single detail. This is a person made for your body, and a person who can give you wild sexual thrills. Not to make a mistake, this is not the state of being in love but feeling wild passion. An insatiable desire for sex and its fulfilment cloud the mind. The bare thought of such a person is enough for you to lose your head. To literally drop to your knees and succumb to their charms. To their "JeNeSaisQuoi" or, if you like, to their irresistible sexual charisma.

JeNeSaisQuoi – "It" can be good or bad

If you find a person to whom you are sexually attracted, you are in heaven. In particular, if you win their heart as well. Inversely, you can find yourself in a vicious circle where you are destroyed by obsession and a desire for things that are out of your reach. Ideally, lust and love are linked and compatible. If they are not and if the wrong person completely drives you wild, that is, if you find the "JeNeSaisQuoi" in the wrong person, you will go through hell. Maybe the person is married, or maybe you are married, or maybe there is no chance for a serious relationship. "It" is merely "mana"; wild, fatal and insatiable sexual desire ripping you apart, destroying you, and driving you crazy.

JeNeSaisQuoi – If they are "it" and have "it", don't think

It is believed that every person is destined to find somebody who will drive them wild with lust at least once in their life. If you find such a person in the right moment, your life will be a fairytale. Sex will be great, passionate, wild, and spontaneous, and "it" will almost literally set the bed on fire. If you find such a person, turn off your reason at least for a while. In particular, if you find the person in the circumstances promising a serious relationship. Let fantasies, dreams and sexual attraction for that person, for the person made for you, take over.

If you think they have the "JeNeSaisQuoi" to go with your desires, go for it!