Some Thoughts on Anal Sex

1.05.2012 | By: T. P.

Anal sex is complicated until you master it. Aren't all things like that?

Anal sex cannot be really seen as "natural", but that doesn't mean that you shouldn't give it a try. (PhotoXpress)

With anal sex, we have to be extremely careful not to cause any injuries. We also have to pay a lot attention to hygiene. (PhotoXpress)

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In my opinion, anal sex is not natural. Before accusing me of being old-fashioned and I do not know what else, let me explain. The rectum and anus do not have the function of receiving the penis. The fact that we can push the penis into the anus does not change the fact that it is unnatural. Some people can push a nail into their nose, and some women push dildos into their urethra. Pushing things into the anus is not natural, even if it is possible and if it gives thrills.

Anal sex is dirty. If you do not believe it, let your partner go to the toilet and then have intercourse with them. The wall of the large intestine and rectum are specifically made to excrete substances and, at the same time, separate the remains of the food that our body cannot use. These substances can cause infections in other environments and ultimately a stench. This is yet another proof that anal sex isn't natural. If it were, we could have anal sex without additional preparations, hygiene and lubricants. The anus doesn't have a natural system of lubrication for penetration. There may quickly appear wounds, bleeding or a more serious injury, of which you will think every time you go to the toilet.

Some people refer to the viewpoint of pleasure. Since inserting things into the anus can trigger orgasm, they practice it. Orgasm is only reached by some people and there are thorough preparations needed. Likewise, orgasm is achieved in vaginal intercourse, so why seek another type of satisfaction that is unnatural to our body? It is true that no serious illness or disease or addiction is connected with anal sex. It involves excitement, connected with exploring your body. And there is nothing wrong with that.

In the end, let's give some advice. To penetrate the anus, both sphincter muscles need to relax. However, we only have one of them under our conscious control. All the efforts therefore do not help, only relaxation and deep breathing do. Insert one finger for a minute, then insert two fingers for two minutes. The anus thus adapts and the other muscle automatically opens. Or not. You are lucky there's still the vagina.