The dangers of cyber sex

At first glance, cyber sex seems completely harmless, but many people a deceived in the vicious cycle of addiction.

 

 

The rapid growth in the mass use of the Internet is unbelievable. Before 1993, only a handful of people used it, particularly in laboratories and universities. In the name of science and progress. At the turn of the millennium, “Computerworld” found that there were 94 million users, and at the same time, there was an increase in the number of people who were interested in cyber sex. And when a smell starts spreading far so that it becomes a disturbing factor in a non-cyber environment, this results in an awkward situation.

 

When a supplement turns into a substitute

Most people are “recreational users” of erotic websites. Similar to when you ended up in a pub to get together with your friends and drink alcohol, or try your luck in a casino. All of the aforementioned have a harmful effect and excessive use leads to degradation of people. It involves a change to the way of thinking in the sense of “when a supplement turns into a substitute”. It definitely isn’t promising to be trapped in the porn-cyber world. Why?  Your thought  are inundated  the images of screen women, which causes problems with “optimisation of your working tool”. When things finally get out of hand, you’re in a similar state as cocaine addicts – focused only on your own pleasure.

 

 

Porn addicts lose the ability to feel intimacy

Don’t underestimate women. They will soon realise that during sexual intercourse you reconstruct the images of women and positions that you examined in the cyber environment. This, however, doesn’t create any problems as long as she – the woman in front of you – takes first place and isn’t only a substitute for porn websites. Porn addicts are supposed to be unable to feel intimacy and treat a woman’s body as an object.

 

 

The vicious cycle of cyber fantasies

Fantasies start intruding into the everyday life of men addicted to the cyber world, but they cannot act them out. However, they feel that they could act them out because they compare them with the ease of a click to the cyber world. They fail to behave reasonably, which brings negative consequences for women, since they might feel humiliated and betrayed, and at the same time, they try to attract men’s attention by competing with porn actresses who only “act” to attract their attention. Therefore, in that case, men are also deceived. If the abuse continues, it can break off a relationship. All this happens because of free-of-charge access to the Internet that promises heaven, but it can also bring hell.

 

Copying of cyber sex to the bedroom

 

The statement aiming at that direction says “sex in my way or nothing”. As studies show, such a situation is extremely alarming and there’s also a strong possibility of depression and stress, both as a consequence of being trapped in the cyber world. On average, these men spend over 12 hours looking at porn websites, mostly in chat rooms, socialising via webcams, transferring videos and images, and sending e-mail messages with erotic content.

 

Marcus Squirrell, a researcher with PhD from Swinburne University of Technology in Melbourne, says that by presenting and examining this phenomenon they want to show the complete mental chaos of people who devote too much time to porn websites. They found that 27% of men were depressed and 35% of men were severely stressed. An additional cause of this phenomenon isn’t so much the abuse itself as it’s the absence of socialising with real people – seclusion and anti-social behaviour, which have the characteristics of a labyrinth. Moreover, maybe they compensate stressful situations in real life with the cyber world in order to reduce stress.

 

 

In the end, it should be emphasised that a computer isn’t the cause of problems, but it’s a user who has to have a sound mind. Above all, it’s advisable that you don’t constantly expose yourself to the radiation a computer monitor. And of course – this applies to both heads...

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