The Definition of MILF

Do you know what this acronym means? It came into cultural circulation with the film American Pie. So, what's the exact definition of MILF?

 

 

The essential part of the definition of MILF is a woman's motherhood. (PhotoXpress)

 

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A pretty common male fantasy is to sleep with a mature woman. A woman who has given birth to a child has a sense of secrecy about her, she usually has bigger breasts and men wonder about the size of her vagina, which stretches out during childbirth. Because they breastfed their babies, their breasts are more sensitive. The male fantasy also includes the domineering qualities in such a woman, mostly concerned with her pleasure and rougher sex. Mothers are hornier, especially if they are divorced or if they are single parents. They do not care about love or tenderness, they just want to be "fucked". They are usually proficient in different sexual styles, they tighten their vaginal muscles after birth with the help of Kegel exercises, they are masters of oral sex due to many years of experience, and they are not disgusted by sperm. Or that's at least the definition of milf in men's imagination.

Pornography fans are certainly familiar with the acronym MILF. But do you know its origin and what it stands for? 

In the film American Pie the following dialogue takes place:

MILF Guy #2: Dude that chick's a MILF!
MILF Guy #1: What the hell is that?
MILF Guy #2: M-I-L-F Mom I'd Like to Fuck!
MILF Guy #1: Yeah dude! Yeah! 

The acronym MILF is thus supposed to mean a "mother I would like (to) fuck“. The emphasis is on the fact that the woman has to be a mother, regardless of her age.

We could go on discussing male fantasies in connection with the images of MILF that pornographic movies create. Of course some facts are true for some mothers. But in general, pornography says more about the people who make it and watch it.

It is true that already Freud was talking about how every boy wants to sleep with his mother. According to him, in adulthood he gets over it, at least if he develops normally. Obviously our society, which is supposedly "civilized", has completely succumbed to this childhood wish to possess one's mother (of course it's highly debatable whether we should take Freud seriously!).

On the one hand, it is good to see that mothers can be regarded as sexual beings, too, and that there exist pornographic movies with older women. On the other hand, considering someone sexy because she is a mother seems a bit twisted, to put it mildly.

Of course, there are some further possible definitions of MILF:

Monkey I'd like to fondle
Money I'd like to fold
Moose I'd like to feed
Moron I'd like to forget

 

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