Top 10 Mistakes Men Make in Bed!

Some men simply don't know what feels good during sex and what women want them to change, so they keep making mistakes...

 

According to some sexologists many men make mistakes while having sex. (jlp)

Foreplay doesn't begin in bed 

Sexologist and relationship expert Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright pointed out that foreplay shouldn't start in bed but much sooner. It’s best to turn on your partner little by little throughout the day. Women love to be wooed and they enjoy being the object of men's desire. If you show your partner that you can't stop thinking about her and her attractive body, your evening will turn out to be much more interesting.
 

Don't start off with cunnilingus

 
Immediate “attack” on the genitals usually isn't the best choice. A woman has to get into the right mood before she’ll feel comfortable about any activities going on below waist. Devote some time to her whole body before going for the main prize.

During a foreplay pay attention to her whole body not just vagina. (jlp)

Don't forget the clitoris

 
Many men believe that female orgasm is a result of penetration. More than 70 percent of women experience clitoral orgasm at the peak of sexual arousal, so it’s very important that men don't ignore the clitoris. It also helps if the partner knows where the clitoris actually is. Instead of stimulating the clitoris some men try to rub the area around urethral opening, and this is, for majority of women, anything but pleasant.

Find the G-spot

If you like to play treasure hunt, Dr. Fulbright recommends searching for the G-spot. It’s located on the anterior wall of the vagina. You can also consult any sex manual to find it.

Don't forget the G-spot and clitoris. (jlp)

Don't just go for one thing

 
There’s nothing more seductive than a man who’s flirtatious and wants to play. But don’t predominate and try to include your partner in a mutual sexual exploration. Let her explore your body. Let it be fun for both of you. Allow yourself to be guided by spontaneity and undoubtedly you will both experience an intensive climax.
 

Making a fuss about your weight

 
Lack of self-esteem because of increased body weight can turn sex into a catastrophe. Feelings of discomfort create erection problems and apart from this your partner can’t get sexually aroused. So leave all worries and irritation about increased weight outside your bedroom. As long as you are sexually attractive to your partner, you have no reason to worry.

Don't worry about your increased body weight during sex. (jlp)

Allow her to be naughty

Sometimes your partner needs to explore her wilder side. Research reveal that women are often more aroused by an explicit fantasy than a romantic one, so don't think of her as a good girl. Allow her to be a nymphomaniac and you her victim. Don't hold her back and enable her to live out her wildest fantasies. Just let her take control and allow her to lead the way.

Don’t expect her to act as a porn star

 
By watching porn movies many men get the wrong impression about what their partners should do and believe that they have to fulfill all their fantasies. Remember, pornography is fantasy and many women don't do things you see there in real life. If she doesn't do anal sex or “deep throating” , it doesn’t mean that she is less sexual than other women. It’s  unfair to expect that she will like pornographic sex.

Don't expect her to act like a porn star, unless she wants to. (jlp)

You don't have to be a porn star either

Although porn movies make guys believe that all women like three-legged men this certainly isn't true. There are probably some women who like a challenge, but most of them are contented with usual penis dimensions. Don't be unnecessarily hard on yourself.
 

There are times when one orgasm isn’t enough

 
After sex women don't cool off as quickly as men. Many still feel aroused for some time and want more action, so one orgasm is not always enough. This of course doesn't mean that the first one was bad. It’s merely a sign that your partner wants some more attention.

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