Would You Have Sex With Your Friend’s Girlfriend?

It is strictly forbidden to have sex with your friend’s girlfriend. It is just not done. But would you do it anyway?

As a rule, you should not touch your friend’s girlfriend. (Photoxpress)
 

Sex with your friend’s girlfriend – why not?

Let us ask ourselves why not. She wants it and you are horny. There is some attraction, so why not? After all, she is not his property and he has no right to stop her. She is a free person and responsible for her own actions. It is their problem how this will affect her and their relationship. It is not necessary that they have any problems, or that there is something wrong with their relationship. People have needs, they are curious, and love to do things that are forbidden. It is much more exciting to have sexual intercourse with your friend’s girlfriend than a total stranger. Usually, she is a good friend who is not your lover because your friend beat you to it, or you even introduced them to each other. Maybe there was chemistry in the past, but the circumstances and time were not right. Maybe it is even better that she has sex with you than some stranger. It all remains within the circle of friends.

Sex with your friend’s girlfriend – question of honour and ethics

There is a silent agreement and hierarchy among men. My love is mine. Find yourself another love. And it is dishonorable to be intimate with the girlfriend of a friend, it is actually like stabbing your friend in the back. Even though you have an honest relationship with your friend you would never be able to tell him what you did. Then you start lying. Or you avoid the truth by saying, if he never asks me anything, I do not need to tell him. Lies are unacceptable among friends. It is the same as betraying your friend. He trusts you and part of that trust is an assumption that you do not flirt with his girlfriend, seduce her, or have sexual relations with her, even if you end up alone with her on a desert island. This is an essential part of respect for your friend. But who fosters such values today? Nowadays, it is allowed to do anything in order to achieve one’s goals, and sometimes it is even necessary. How can you expect from people to still cherish values such as honor? Truthfulness? Loyalty? 

Sex with your friend’s girlfriend – being a man of principle

Let us imagine that people gather in packs, that is, packs of friends. There is a specific order and everyone has a certain role. Sexual relations in a pack are part of a fixed order. You can have sexual intercourse with every single female in the pack, while other females are forbidden. Even if they offer themselves to you and their pheromones drive you wild, you have to suppress your drive and follow the rules of the pack. You need the pack to survive and you will never sacrifice your existence, safety and comfort provided by the membership in the pack. However, we are not lustful beasts. We do not turn around every time a woman shows her ass, sniff her and then wait for the alpha male to be far enough. We are not animals but people. And a community of people is not a pack of animals where the alpha male is the dominant one and others can have the rest. People respect relationships because they are aware that this is the best possible way of existence. That is why you never have sexual relations with your friend’s girlfriend. At least while she is his girlfriend. And even then you wait until her body does not have his scent any more.

Sex with your friend’s girlfriend  – why not?

We pointed out two possible reasons why you should not have sex with your friend’s girlfriend. One reason is based on values and the other is based on pragmatism. If you are friends, you do not do it. If you are wise, you do not do it. What about if you forget about your friend when you feel the warm skin of a woman, and your reason is drowning in your sexual desire? Are you strong enough to suppress the passion and energy, pour cold water over you, pinch yourself, knock over something, anything, to ease the tension? The next question is whether you want to be so strong? Everyone has their own answer, and it is best if you do not test yourselves. You can also ask yourselves how would you feel about your friend if he did something like that. This is the way you have to behave as well.

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