How to reach a simultaneous orgasm?

We are showing you ways to reach the ideal of sexual intercourse – a simultaneous orgasm!

 

A simultaneous orgasm is something so wonderful and unattainable for some, that it has become a myth. Others claim that a simultaneous orgasm is very possible. You just have to be familiar with the right techniques and you have to know yourself well enough. There are also some who claim that a simultaneous orgasm is something which became important only because of mankind’s imagination and that it is not anything special. Supposedly, it takes too much effort for not a big enough prize. Do you agree?

 

 
Whether a simultaneous orgasm is a myth or an everyday occurrence is not really important. It is definitely possible. It is important to wipe the images from TV from your mind when comprehending and reaching a simultaneous orgasm. A simultaneous orgasm does definitely not happen in that way and not in only a few minutes. Too much analysing of your orgasms will also not get you there. These torturous thoughts will more likely lead you away from the desired goal.

 

 

Look at the simultaneous orgasm as something to liven things up, as a bonus during intercourse and not a necessity. Why do some people want it so badly? Because it gives double the pleasure – two orgasms. Most people like watching their partners come because of the pleasure they provide them and if s/he is coming as well, this is just a cherry on top of the cake for some.

  

Why is a simultaneous orgasm not an everyday occurrence for many people?

 

 
One explanation is clear if we look at the time it takes a woman and a man to reach an orgasm. Many women have a problem with reaching an orgasm at all, let alone coming as fast as the man.

 

The second problem is with the most characteristic positions. The missionary position, where the man pushes his dick deep and takes it out again, is also not the position to take you to paradise together.

 

The third problem is the thrusting technique. Stronger and faster is okay for the Olympics, but not when it comes to a woman’s orgasm. The stronger he will thrust, the faster he will come and the fun will be over for a while.

 

  

How to reach a simultaneous orgasm?

 

Take your time for foreplay

 

Sex is a game with its own rules. Do not cheat because you will not see the desired results.

 

The first rule is that there are no shortcuts. If you take time for foreplay and if the man cannot delay his orgasm, then one of you will most likely not finish this game. Sex is not a formula one race, a penis is not a Ferrari and she is not a runway which can be used in any conditions. Applying the brakes is important and welcome here. Delaying the orgasm is necessary. Do not focus only on one point during foreplay and intercourse. It would be so simple if that was how it was done.

 

Delay your ejaculation

 

One of the signs that the man is nearing an orgasm is that his pouch squeezes closer to the penis. When we recognize this sign, we can push the pouch gently down and delay the orgasm.  Putting pressure on the point between the anus and the pouch also prolongs the orgasm. Be careful not to exaggerate because pushing on that point for too long and too hard can be dangerous. 

 

 

Choose the right position for a simultaneous orgasm

 

The second rule is that focusing on just one area is not enough. Different positions and pressing different buttons will take more time, but success is guaranteed. The missionary position is out – even though it offers many sensual pleasures during lovemaking, it is useless many times. There are many positions leading to a female orgasm, but the common denominator is that they must include the clitoris and the possibility of fondling the breasts. So, positions focused mainly on banging will not have the desired effect with most women. There will be an effect if you start banging her faster if you notice she is just about to come. The man finds it easier to catch up to a woman if he sees she is about to come than the other way round. Women can control their orgasms though – the easiest way is to rub her own clitoris because she knows what and how to press. The positions where you are pressing on the clitoris while banging are very welcome.

 

Use sexual accessories

 

The third rule is to use your imagination and sexual accessories. Use anything you can – toys, tongue, fingers... If a woman wants to use a vibrator when shagging, that does not make you a bad lover. She is only aware of her options and wants to use them! Mutual oral pleasuring is a way that helps many people to a simultaneous orgasm.

 

 

This is a game that must be played on many levels and tactically from start to finish.

 

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