Learn to Reach a Simultaneous Orgasm

The ultimate, ideal outcome of sexual intercourse is reaching a simultaneous orgasm. How can we achieve it?

 

You just have to use the right techniques to reach a simultaneous orgasm. (jlp)

A simultaneous orgasm is something so wonderful and unattainable for some that it has become a myth. Others claim that a simultaneous orgasm is in everyone's reach, if we're only willing to follow certain guidelines. You just have to be familiar with the right techniques and you have to know yourself well. There are also some who believe that a simultaneous orgasm became important only due to mankind’s imagination and that it is nothing special. Supposedly, it takes too much effort and isn't a big enough prize.

 

 
Whether a simultaneous orgasm is a myth or an everyday occurrence doesn't really matter. It's definitely attainable. It's important to wipe the images from TV from your mind when trying to grasp the simultaneous orgasm.

A simultaneous orgasm definitely doesn't happen in only a few minutes. Too much analyzing of your orgasms will also not get you there, and any torturous thoughts of this kind will more likely lead you away from the desired goal.

 

The missionary position is sometimes useless.

 

Look at the simultaneous orgasm as something to liven things up, as a bonus and not an obligation. Why do people want it anyway? Most people like watching their partners come as a result of the pleasure they provide them. If the other person is coming as well, this seems like a cherry on top of a cake. The simultaneous orgasm is a symbol of perfect harmony and accordance.

  

Why isn't a simultaneous orgasm an everyday occurrence for the majority of people?

 

 

 
It all becomes clear if we look at the time it takes a woman and a man to reach an orgasm. Many women have a problem with climaxing at all, let alone coming as fast as the man.

 

The second problem concerns the most frequently used sexual positions. The missionary position isn't the position to take you to paradise together.

 

The third problem is the thrusting technique. Stronger and faster is okay for the Olympics, but not when it comes to a woman’s orgasm. The stronger a man will thrust, the faster he'll come and the sooner the fun will be over for his partner.

 

Using a vibrator makes getting you to a simultaneous orgasm easier.

  

How to reach a simultaneous orgasm?

 

 

Take your time for foreplay

 

Sex is a game with its own rules. Don't cheat because you won't see the desired results. And the first rule is that there are no short-cuts. If you don't take a lot of time for foreplay, then one of you most probably won't finish this game. Sex isn't a formula one race, a penis isn't a Ferrari and a woman is most certainly not a runway that can be used in any conditions. Applying brakes is advisable, and delaying an orgasm necessary. Don't focus on only one erogenous zone or only one activity during foreplay and intercourse. It would be so simple if that was how it was done.

 

Delay your ejaculation

 

One of the signs that the man is nearing an orgasm is that his pouch squeezes closer to the penis. When we recognize this sign, we can push the pouch gently down and delay the orgasm. Putting pressure on the point between the anus and the pouch also prolongs the orgasm. However, be careful not to exaggerate because pushing on that spot for too long or too hard can be dangerous. 

 

Focus on as many parts of the body as possible. (jlp)

 

Choose the right position for a simultaneous orgasm

 

Remember, focusing on just one area isn't enough. Using different positions and pressing different buttons will take more time, but success is guaranteed. The missionary position is out, because it's often useless, compared to many other positions that lead to the female orgasm. Their common denominator is that they include the stimulation of the clitoris and the possibility to fondle the breasts. Positions focused mainly on banging will not have the desired effect with most women. Of course, there will be some effect if you start banging her faster when you notice she is just about to come. The man finds it easier to catch up to a woman if he sees she's about to come than the other way around.

Women can control their orgasms though; the easiest way for a woman to reach an orgasm is to rub her clitoris by herself because she knows what and how to press. All positions where you're pressing on the clitoris during penetration are warmly welcome.

 

Use sexual accessories

 

The third rule is to use both your imagination and sexual accessories. Use anything you find useful – toys, your tongue, your fingers ... If a woman wants to use a vibrator when having sexual intercourse, that doesn't make you a bad lover. She's only aware of her options and wants to make the best of them. Mutual oral stimulation also helps many people reach a simultaneous orgasm.

 

Listen to your partner’s sexual desires. (jlp)

 

Yes, sex is a game that must be played on many levels and tactically from start to finish.

 

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