Rubbing the clitoris the right way

5.06.2009 | By: T. B.

Massaging the clitoris requires knowledge. Let us guide you though the basic of rubbing the clitoris - the right way!

 

The answer is a clitoris massage. Most people think that to work on a woman with one’s fingers means to rub up and down the clitoris a few times and go a little crazy on it. If you want to make sure that she really wants your fingers on her clitoris, massage her! And do not do it as merely foreplay, but use it as the main course.

 

Start massaging the clitoris gently and slowly
Start massaging the clitoris gently and slowly

 

This is particularly appropriate for people who are physically limited in some way. Pregnant women who are horny as hell because of the hormones and desire, but intercourse hurts them or they are afraid they might go overboard, will be particularly grateful if you pay attention to her by massaging the clitoris. Impotent men can also satisfy their partners and the massage can be a pleasant event. It can also be used by teenagers, who want to experience sexual pleasure, but do not want intercourse.

 

For a good massage, it is important to know the clitoris well. How it looks like when it is aroused and how when it is not, what feels good at this moment and what at that. A clitoris is not just a small button which is most distinctive when a woman is aroused. It is also important to know that not every one is the same. For example, some women do not have distinct inner labia or only have one labium. During your research, it is better to be gentle than rough because most clitorises are sensitive and stronger and more direct touches can be unpleasant more often than not. Of course, this does not apply to all women. There are women who have relatively insensitive clitorises. There are also some clitorises that are sensitive at first and then require a stronger grip.

 

Knowing how to handle the clitoris means more than just rubbing it  (jlp)
Knowing how to handle the clitoris means more than just rubbing it (jlp)

 

If the partner is not moist enough, you have to apply some lubricant before the massage. You may also decide to use latex gloves, so your fingers can slide better and will seem smoother. Gloves can also be handy if you want to penetrate into her vagina with your fingers because they prevent scratching which could otherwise occur.

 
Use one, two or three fingers when massaging, depending on the size of the clitoris. Use your thumb, index finger and middle finger. With two or three finger take the tissue of the clitoris and gently move it up and down. Feel its shape and everything the tissue surrounding it hides and also the skin of the gland covering the button. Adjust the speed according to her. If you cannot grab the clitoris, put your index finger on it and circle. You can also move up and down.

 

Get to know every part of her body. Only then will you become an unforgettable lover. (jlp)
Get to know every part of her body. Only then will you become an unforgettable lover. (jlp)

 

Change the pressure and tempo, but not constantly. After a certain amount of time, it is recommended to settle on a certain pressure and tempo. Especially if the partner is near an orgasm, because it can distract her. Her orgasm can thus be less intense, or she will need more time to get to that point again, or it can even be uncomfortable.

 

Usually we start massaging the clitoris gently and slowly. In time, we apply more pressure and move faster.
Beneath your fingers you will feel all parts of the clitoris. Your fingers should try to grab as much tissue surrounding the clitoris as possible at all times. Stimulate as large an area as possible. Not every woman will experience an orgasm in such a way, but there are certainly not many women who would not enjoy a clitoris massage!

 

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