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How often do you experience orgasm during sex?

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Written on: 1. Apr 2010 11:02
Jenna
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Jenna
registered since: 16.03.2010
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Hello again,

I have a question for you: how often do you really experience orgasms with your partner? I don't reach orgasm every time we do it. In fact, it happens very rarely. But when I masturbate, I come every time ... How's the situation with you?

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Written on: 2. Apr 2010 19:14
lollypop
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Hello, Jenna!

I don't have problems reaching orgasm. How often do you masturbate? When you masturbate, do you need a lot of time to come? I don'ticon_smile.gif I also often masturbate while having sex, if the position allows me. I masturbate a lot and I think this is essential for my ability to enjoy sex to the extent that I do. You have to focus on yourself and be a bit selfish, I guess. I also stick to Kegel exercises - you have probably heard of them, right? They help tremendously, so that you really become aware of your vaginal muscles. You can tighten your vagina during penetration and you feel much more - your partner doesn't have to have a big penis! Of course, it's always important that you love your body and embrace your sexuality - that's the first condition - that you *allow* yourself to relax and truly enjoy sex!
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Written on: 4. Apr 2010 11:17
Jenna
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Thanks. Well, when I masturbate, I need a lot of time to come.

I actually like sex very much, sex itself, and often I don't feel the need to come while doing it (although it would be nice), but I'm afraid men don't get this - they think that a woman has to come to be happy with her sex life. Which isn't necessarily and completely true. I feel under pressure in bed - I know I need a lot of time to come, and there aren't many men who would endure for such a long time. If a man licks me, I also need a lot of time. I hate being under pressure and I don't want to fake orgasms just for the sake of making my man happy. It would be so much easier if nobody expected me to come.
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Written on: 22. Jul 2010 17:30
UrbanSpaceman
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From a man's point of view, it's certainly satisfying when a woman has an orgasm during sex but it isn't an issue if she doesn't, especially when in a relationship. Sounds like you just need to relax and stop worrying about what he's thinking.
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Written on: 13. Aug 2010 09:51
andrea24
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Men worry too much if their partner doesn't reach an orgasm. I often don't reach it, but it's not an issue for me, because sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't. At least that's how I feel about it. But it takes a lot of time for me to reach it during sex, but with masturbation it happens really fast.

I hate it if a guy asks me after sex if he was not good enough, what was wrong, etc. If he constantly does this, then I feel guilty if I don't reach an orgasm several times in a row. If he sees that I'm enjoying sex then that should be enough sometimes.

So I think an orgasm shouldn't be such a big issue.
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Written on: 19. Aug 2010 11:38
queenyoko
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i really think your not relaxing in bed so your not let the wave of passion over take your body and if you did that then you mite find it easier to have the big O every time you have sex with your man but if you don't relax then you will not have an orgasm every time
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Written on: 2. Sep 2012 09:24
Koi
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I orgasim every time. Multiple stimulation is key! Try stimulating mutiple erogenous zones at once when you have reached peak pleasure from entercourse alone. When I discovered this my sex life forever changed for the wetter I mean better lol. Relax and don't be shy or ashamed If feel soooo much better when you just give in to passion and pleasure let go of any thoughts not having to do with your pleasure.
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