6 Sexual Mistakes It Is Better to Avoid

Harmonious sex life is an important part of every relationship, so make sure you avoid the next 6 sexual mistakes with your new partner!

Sexual mistake #1: Don't be afraid

Don't be afraid of bad performance or unfulfilled expectations of your partner. If you are worried and nervous in front of you new partner, some of these feelings will surely transfer to him or her and a nice romantic evening can become a real nightmare.

Sexual mistake #2: Don’t have a glass too much

There's nothing wrong with having a glass or two, but if you exaggerate with alcohol your partner will get the impression that you wouldn't go between the sheets if you were sober. Besides, you won't look very attractive with shaky legs, glassy eyes and alcohol breath.

Sexual mistake #3: Don’t expect too much

First intercourse with a new partner is intended for exploring and getting to know one another, and not for showing off your bed skills. If some of the stuff worked well with your previous partner, it is not necessary that the new one will like them too, which doesn't mean you failed as a sexual partner. Some people need more time to get used to each other in bed.

Sexual mistake #4: Don’t rush things

Even if you're ready for wild passion, it is better to control your action at the beginning of a relationship for future's sake. Don't reveal you deepest fantasies right at the beginning and don't take your erotic accessories out of a closet on the first date.

Sexual mistake #5: Don’t talk about the past

Your new partner is not interested in your previous sexual experiences, so keep your bed stories and comparisons to ex partners to yourself. Focus on the very moment and make sure the person feels like he or she is the one and only.

Sexual mistake #6: Use protection

Jumping to bed with someone whose past you're not familiar with can be very dangerous. The symptoms of numerous sexually transmitted diseases are often very hard to recognize, and that's why you should never forget about contraception at first sexual intercourse with a new partner. It is most advisable to use a condom, and later you can switch to other forms of contraception.

Find more advice on successful dating in the Encyclopedia of Sexuality.

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