»My Vagina Is Too Wet!«

Women usually have problems with insufficient moistness of the vagina, but some of them face a different problem - theirs is too wet!

Excessive vaginal moistness can be unpleasant

While some women complain that their vagina is not sufficiently moist during sexual intercourse and they always have to use a drop of lubricant, some women have an entirely different problem. The fact is that a dry vagina can cause painful sexual intercourse and increase the chances of getting infected with sexually transmitted diseases. But women who have problems with excessive vaginal moistness are often unable to completely relax during intercourse because they are worried it bothers their partner. Excessive vaginal moistness also takes away some of the feeling, because a woman as well as her partner feel less friction. Besides, oral intercourse is difficult when a man has inhibitions and it also leaves stains on the sheets.

Vaginal moistness is a sign of strong arousal

Vaginal moistness shows how aroused a woman actually is. Only women usually worry about the moistness of their vagina, because the partner usually doesn't mind or complain about the problem, claim sexologists.

It is hard to determine why the excessive moistness occurs 

Some women only experience the excessive vaginal moistness with one man, and not with all of their partners, while others experience it with every sexual intercourse. With some women, the excessive vaginal moistness occurs because of menopause, but sometimes it can also be triggered by a long foreplay.

Anal intercourse is easier

Excessive vaginal moistness has one other advantage for couples who practice anal intercourse. There's no need for them to stop and apply lubricant before anal penetration, which sometimes takes too long and problems with erection may even occur. A truly wet vagina is a good substitute for a lubricant, it is natural and doesn't cause any potential allergies.

When it bothers both of you

In case your excessive vaginal moistness is disturbing for both of you, the solution is easy. You should always keep handkerchiefs by the bed, and she can use them to dry herself before intercourse. Some couples solve the problem so that the man first orally satisfies his partner and only then penetrates. 

Which sexual positions are recommended?

In case you don't like the excessive vaginal moistness, certain sexual positions might also help. Sexologists advise the position from the side or doggy sytle, because it offers more friction. In case the woman can hardly feel the penetration because of the excessive moistness, she can also additionally stimulate herself with the fingers, which will help her to reach an orgasm faster.

In case you have the opposite problem, read what to do if you vagina is too dry.