Help! She Has an Overly Sensitive Clitoris!
What can you do if your partner has a too sensitive clitoris?
Does your lover have a sensitive clitoris?
There are women who can experience a vaginal, anal and a clitoral
orgasm, or even the 
breast orgasm. There are women for whom the clitoris is the only orgasmic part of their body, while there are others for whom the clitoral orgasm is impossible to reach because their clitoris is too sensitive. Ladies, it's more than likely than nothing is wrong with your clitoris. If you feel painful friction instead of pleasure, the cause is probably just the ignorance of your partner.
How do I know her clitoris is too sensitive?
The stimulation of the clitoris is part and parcel of every woman's masturbation.
Most women are greatly pleased when you tackle their clitoris, be it with your fingers, tongue or something else. The stimulation of the clitoris is part and parcel of every foreplay, and sometimes it can serve as a perfectly good „substitute“ for intercourse with penetration. The majority of women masturbate by stimulating their clitoris, where a dildo is only an addition.
The sensitivity of the clitoris is changing throughout the woman's menstrual cycle, so it may happen that the same woman will sometimes crave for light touches soft as feathers, while a week from then you can almost bite off a part of her crotch and her response will still be lukewarm.
If your woman doesn't show quickened breath and doesn't produce sounds that consist more or less of the sound „m“, but tosses spasmodically whenever you interfere with the space between her legs or even tries to push you away, you can be pretty sure something's wrong. Most likely, you're treating her overly sensitive clitoris too roughly.
How to tackle an overly sensitive clitoris?
First, let's take a look at how to handle the clitoris the right way with fingers. You have to make sure that your fingers are moist enough; the most elegant and hot way to moisten them is to use the juices of your partner. If her vagina isn't really moist (yet), help yourself with your saliva (if she isn't particularly coy, you can also use hers). If saliva isn't smooth and viscose
enough, you'll have to avail yourself of a lubricant. You can also use baby oil, if you don't intend to have sex with a condom. If you use condoms, use an unscented water-based lube (some of them can also help with massage).
Tackle the clitoris as gently as possible.
We have to emphasize the fact that the head of the clitoris represents its most sensitive part, which doesn't always mean that it also brings greatest pleasure. That's why you should pay attention to the stem of the clitoris, which can also be a source of pleasure, only more dispersed and less concentrated than on the head of the clitoris. The second possibility is to tackle the head "from above," i.e. over the skin that covers it. That's how the stimuli will be softened and this is perhaps just what she needs to push her over the edge.
When you orally stimulate the clitoris, use wide, slow and gentle strokes with your tongue. Your tongue should be softened and relaxed. Even the tongue isn't always moist enough; if you don't have enough saliva, drink a glass of water. You can also use an aromatized lube if you wish. When stimulating the clitoris, be slow and thorough, and try with circular movements.
Some possibilities open to an overly sensitive clitoris
If you get tired during oral intercourse or if you want to provide your lover with an even more gentle stimulation of the sensitive clitoris, try to do it with the lower part of your tongue: touch the upper lip with it and move your head up and down. You can also try moving it left and right. In this way, you'll also relax the muscles of your neck.
You can stimulate the clitoris through the underwear.
Stimulate an overly sensitive clitoris through her underwear. If it's made of lace or silk, this will be an additional stimulus for you both, visually as well as with regard to the sense of touch, and you'll be craving for more. In a similar spirit, your partner can wear her panties also during intercourse – just move them a little to the side. One can do that most easily with an elastic thong.
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