How to Tell Him That You Don’t Want to Perform Oral Sex?
In general, women want to please their partner, but sometimes they’re just not in the mood to perform oral sex.
If you don’t give an explanation for your refusal, your partner might not be understanding. (jlp)
When you’re not in the mood to perform oral sex
If you don’t want to perform 
oral sex at the moment, or find it revolting in general, you have a legitimate right to deny your partner this treat. Unfortunately, he won’t always take it nicely, so you should have a well-founded excuse up your sleeve to convince him that you mean what you say. Of course, the best thing is to be honest and use such excuses only when there’s no other way. Sometimes an excuse is a better solution than telling the truth that would eventually hurt your partner.
Promise him an unforgettable experience of oral sex and be in charge of the situation. (jlp)
If you have no desire to perform oral sex
There’s nothing wrong if you have no real desire to perform oral sex. Don’t think there’s something the matter with you. It’s natural that you have certain reservations. Maybe your partner also isn’t thrilled about every suggestion you make, but that doesn’t mean he’ll always be understanding about your reservations. So, it’s a good thing to have a few excuses you can use in such a situation. One of the excuses for avoiding oral sex is to say that you’re sensitive and it makes you vomit. The fact is that oral sex can cause a gag reflex. If you tell him that you have a very sensitive gag reflex, he most probably won’t insist that you go down on him. You can also say that the acid in your stomach flows back up if you put his penis in your mouth. Tell him that you often dislocate your jaws. In that case, he probably won’t take that risk while his penis is in your mouth. Another alternative is to say that you have a problem with breathing through your nose, which plays an important role in oral sex.
Tell him that you often dislocate your jaws. He’ll probably lose all interest in oral sex in seconds. (jlp)
If you’re exhausted or don’t feel up to it today
If you generally like to perform oral sex and enjoy it, but you sometimes don’t feel up to it, just tell him that. If you’re afraid that he won’t understand you despite your usual enthusiasm, try throwing him a seductive look and promise him that you’ll perform it another time. Tell him that it’s not the right moment and that you think you should both be more aroused. The promise of mind-blowing oral sex might calm him down for a while – it’s possible that he’ll even reach an orgasm before you come back to oral sex.
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